Hello submissives of redddit,
I am a 43 year old experienced Dominant looking for a special submissive to connect, build a trusting dynamic, and train.
I am looking for someone to connect with every damn day. Mornings and evenings we'll flood each other with messages, but expect me slipping into your day - quick checks between meetings, a command to make you squirm at work, or just to hear how wet the thought of me makes you. I want your highs, your vents, your victories - and yes, I'll hold you accountable when you slip, because nothing turns me on like watching you strive to please.
This will be a full dynamic: in the bedroom, you're mine to own and command, as I slowly and deliciously train your body to respond to me, to please me, and to suffer for me. Outside of the bedroom the control runs deeper. There will be rules that sink into your skin, rituals that remind you who you have submitted to and who owns you. Expect structure: bedtime to keep you sharp for me, outfits chosen to make you feel exposed and owned, daily check-ins that keep you tethered, punishments when you break the rules (and trust me, I'll enjoy delivering them).
I'll train you to crave my approval, to move, speak, and come exactly how I want. Not to erase you but to mold you into someone you and I are both proud of. We start slow if needed, but once trust locks in, the leash tightens.
About You
A kind-hearted girl with a real hunger to submit - not just play pretend. Battiness is spice, not the main course; your core should ache to make me happy, to feel safe in my grip. Open and strong communication is non-negotiable. Open and clear communication is required to build trust.
If you grew up sweet and innocent, still blushing at how "dirty" sex feels - fuck yes, I want to corrupt that. If you're already a filthy experienced submissive- bring it, I'll push you further. (And if you're obsessed with Survivor or Big Brother... keep that your shameful little secret)
If this lit a fire
Message me. First timer or 20-year vet, doesn't matter - tell me:
- What draws you to submission and the darker edges of BDSM?
- What did you have for supper? (Keep it honest; I like details.)
- Your experience in a dynamic (or beautiful lack of it)?
- Kinkiest thing you've done so far?
- Night owl or morning person? (I might own your sleep schedule soon.)
Best case: we ignite something intense, raw, addictive. Worst case: two pervs swap filthy stories and walk away smirking.