meta: intimacy with one person vs a long history
Curious if any folks feel similarly - I’m really into my wife’s history with her one ex that she had many of her firsts with, who was completely different from me.
A lot of content and discussion here and in the captions sub involve finding out or fantasizing about a partner’s extensive history with many past partners, but I’m actually more excited about the “one guy”.
He was a lot more traditionally masculine and a lot more physical with her, and they were each other’s firsts in almost every way. Hearing her talk about her first experiences and the way they were intimate (more often, more voracious, more rough than we are) is a huge turn on.
I think the fact he was her first, and was important to her, is super exciting.
Anyone else have similar vibes?