I wonder if any women ever had a phantasie about me, like I have phantasies about women.
When I'm laying in my bed and can't sleep, I like to think about some nice women I met throughout my life. How would it be, if we had a relationship, what date ideas do I have and of course how we would sleep together.
There are also purely sexual phantasies involving those who are attractive and sexy, but I dodn't like their personality as much. I can't get romantic phantasies witht them, but I often think of these women when masturbating. Sometimes it is just someone I saw on the train and I keep that picture in my mind until it's evening.
But most of all the women I ever saw are forgotten or not involved in my phantasies. They are not my type.
And this is where I get the question of the title. Did any women ever think of me, imagining a romantic date or some pleasuring sex? Or am I one of the forgottable men in between all the others? After what my first and until now only girlfriend told me when we broke up, I'm pretty sure even she didn't have romantic phantasies about me and I'm 80% sure no sexual phantasies eigher.
Do women even have phantasies like I described them?
I just want to tell someone about this thought. I'm not sure what would happen if I knew who had pahntasies about me, but I guess it could give me a slight confidence boost. I wonder if anyone ever thought I'm attractive. If they did so, why didn't they tell me?
How about you? Did you ever question this to yourself? Would you like to know, who has romantic or sexual phantasies about you?
Edit: I'm M22 btw, if that's relevant. Not much experience, much to come, but still slightly worried about myself.