TL;DR: I am a German Dom/sub/switch (you choose) looking for a serious relationship or a play partner, depending on how it works out.

About me

I'm a 33 year old, blonde, athletic man, 178cm and a non-smoker. Happy to exchange photos.

I love music and play Guitar in a Band. 10 years ago, I discovered rock climbing, which I've been doing non-stop ever since, both indoors and outdoors. I play chess and other nerdy games and am annoyingly passionate about programming and open source. Sometimes I build small, pointless electronic devices to automate absolutely trivial tasks for me. I am a physicist by trade, so if you want to hear fun facts about the crazy universe we live in, you're in luck!

I live in my own place, have a stable job and lots of free time which I usually spend working on various personal projects. As a bonus, I work remotely so I can travel virtually all year.

Who I am looking for

My ideal partner is independent, takes care of herself mentally and physically, is passionate about BDSM but importantly, also passionate about other things. I like optimism, humor and am extremely attracted to people who are unconditionally kind to others.

I am looking for somebody with whom I can communicate openly, share a laugh about how ridiculous life is and get excited about any shared passions we might have.

Whether you have been in the lifestyle for 20 years or are just starting out does not matter to me. As long as you understand that consent is the most important thing, can communicate your thoughts openly, are willing to listen, and are passionate about BDSM, I'd love to hear from you and learn together. As for me, I have a decent amount of experience, but am excited to keep learning.

BDSM

I am a slightly Dom-leaning switch but you don't have to be a switch yourself - I am happy to find somebody who is purely a Domme or a sub too!

I enjoy slightly different things, depending on my role.

As a Dom

Bondage excites me in virtually all forms, from sessions in which I spend a long time tying you up in different positions to hidden everyday bondage to comfortably cuddling in Bondage while watching a movie. I like the helplessness, the visuals, the constricting feeling and the warmth of it.

I love brats, and how they look when they eventually give up. I love wrestling with my sub and excerting physical control over her until she gives in or gets tied up to receive her deserved punishment. I have recently learned that I don't need my partner to be a brat, and that I also enjoy playing with subs who are more obedient and want to do their best to please.

I am not a major sadist, but I do enjoy watching masochists enjoy themselves so impact play and other slightly sadistic things are fun for me too :)

As a sub

I love being tied up more than everything. Love being completely helpless, objectified and used for your pleasure. I like anal and am curious to try it more. Would love to find somebody who shares my fetishes, but that is not a necessity at all. (If you happen to be very good at wrestling I'd love to lose to you, lol).

Kinks

A non-exhaustive list of kinks of mine: Bondage, shibari, CNC, impact play, training, humiliation (less the name-calling type and more the "this gag sure makes you look ridiculous" kind of way). I have a variety of fetishes - for objects like ropes, belts, gags and straightjackets and for materials like leather, vinyl and spandex.

None of these are a requirement - the only kink a partner of mine would probably want to share is a love for Bondage.

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If what I've written resonated with you, message me :) I look forward to hearing from you! I speak both German and English fluently, so choose whichever you prefer.