u/rtak74

34 [M4A] Shy virgin intimidated by sex

I get quite self-conscious when it comes to anything sexual, on account of my total lack of experience and not really having any idea what I'm doing. I much prefer women who want to take the lead, and women who are super confident and comfortable when it comes to sex are incredibly hot.

Basically the closest thing I've had to an actual sexual experience is the time a hot friend of mine bragged to me about her husband's cock and it got her so turned on that she had to leave the conversation with me to go fuck him. Which...doesn't really count for much.

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u/rtak74 — 5 days ago

[M4A] The closest I've had to a sexual experience is the time a friend I was into bragged about her husband's cock then went off to fuck him. I can't stop thinking about it...

I was super into her - she started talking about how amazing her husband was and that included his endowment and prowess in bed. And she got so turned on talking about his cock, and how big and amazing it was, that she said she was leaving the conversation to go fuck him.

That's the closest I've ever been to anything sexual happening. And I'm not super sure how to feel about it. I absolutely love women who are sexually confident, sexually experienced, sexually open - female sexual pleasure is the single hottest thing in the world to me and women who like experiencing it and aren't afraid to go get it are awesome. Sex intimidates me, given my complete lack of experience, and I really have no idea what I'm doing or anything. And her excitement about his cock, and the things he could do with it, was super hot, because she was clearly comfortable being open about it and because clearly she experiences a lot of sexual pleasure, and I like that even if it's a woman I'm into and a guy who's not me.

But still...it's a woman I'm into and a guy who's not me, which isn't ideal. But it's also a fun mental image - hot people fucking is hot, that's why porn is such a big thing. And she's done some nude modeling, so it's a particularly vivid mental image. It's kinda been on my mind, and I'm not super sure how to feel about it. So, keen to chat about it I guess.

And no, I'm not going to send you pictures of her, you creep.

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u/rtak74 — 6 days ago

34 [M4A] Shy virgin intimidated by sex

I get quite self-conscious when it comes to anything sexual, on account of my total lack of experience and not really having any idea what I'm doing. I much prefer women who want to take the lead, and women who are super confident and comfortable when it comes to sex are incredibly hot.

Basically the closest thing I've had to an actual sexual experience is the time a hot friend of mine bragged to me about her husband's cock and it got her so turned on that she had to leave the conversation with me to go fuck him. Which...doesn't really count for much.

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u/rtak74 — 10 days ago

34 [M4F] Shy virgin intimidated by sex

I get quite self-conscious when it comes to anything sexual, on account of my total lack of experience and not really having any idea what I'm doing. I much prefer women who want to take the lead, and women who are super confident and comfortable when it comes to sex are incredibly hot.

Basically the closest thing I've had to an actual sexual experience is the time a hot friend of mine bragged to me about her husband's cock and it got her so turned on that she had to leave the conversation with me to go fuck him. Which...doesn't really count for much.

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u/rtak74 — 10 days ago

We were just chatting, I made a joke at his expense, she proceeded to inform me about how amazing he actually is, especially his big cock, and how good he makes her feel...and got so turned on in the process that she announced she was gonna go fuck him. Immediately. Which was...kinda hot. Like, her enthusiasm and excitement and the pleasure he clearly gives her...

She's done nude modeling, so I had quite the vivid mental image. Some time after this I also had a dream in which she sent me a video of her sucking his cock, intermittently turning to the camera to enthuse about how big and amazing his cock is, regarding the video as proof of her earlier assertions.

That conversation is the closest I've been to an actual sexual experience. Given I've never done anything I really have no clue what I'm doing when it comes to sex and as a result I find sex pretty intimidating. Like, I don't really think about fucking her myself because that's kinda terrifying, especially with the standard her husband has set. And like, I have no idea what I'm doing, and sex intimidates me...I'm really not sure how to feel about any of it.

So, uh, yeah. That's where my head's at. Kinda keen to talk about it, because I can't really get it out of my head TBH. Just...picturing her with him, thinking about how good he makes her feel, the pleasure she gets from his huge cock...

Prefer Reddit Chat to PMs, but either works. I have Discord, too (message here first though, I don't habitually check). Guys tend not to get flooded on here so even if this has been up for a while, feel free to message.

And no, I'm not going to send you pictures of her, you creep.

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u/rtak74 — 26 days ago