38M Dom looking for a long-term online sub that could transition to IRL. I'm 6'1 and a man of color.
My role as a Dom changes based on the needs of my sub. I naturally enjoy taking care of my sub and molding her into her best version. I pride myself in being a good mentor. I value questions and take time to answer them to the best of my abilities. Daily tasks/rules would help her achieve personal goals, or they can be used to help her grow as my sub. I am looking for something long-term because I like to truly get to know my sub and learn about the different things that make her tick. I also view trust, creating a safe space, and open communication as foundations for a strong BDSM dynamic.
What I am looking for: I work well with subs who are genuine, eager to learn, attentive, and inquisitive. I appreciate subs of different ages, races, body types, and levels of BDSM experience. I am patient with my sub and enjoy seeing her progress as both a sub and a person throughout our dynamic.
Some of my kinks include orgasm control, forced orgasms, praise, degradation/humiliation, impact play, bondage, bimbofication, edging with porn/messages, and much more.
Tell me a bit about yourself and what you are looking for in a dynamic.