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Wife question… how common are “jerk buds” in the lifestyle? 😂

Okay ladies (and honest husbands) I'm genuinely curious...

How common is it in the lifestyle for a husband to have a regular "jerk bud" or solo play friendship outside of full swaps? Not talking about random hookups, but like that one guy he always ends up texting when I'm out of town, busy, or not in the mood

I feel like this probably happens WAY more than people admit, especially in more open-minded swinger relationships. Some of it honestly seems kinda hot 🥵 to me but I'm curious if this is actually a normal lifestyle thing or more of a quiet fantasy/side dynamic people don't openly talk about.

Would love to hear real experiences from couples who've navigated this. Or some people that woudl be interested in something like this! Honestly the thought of one of another man or one of his buddies coming over, them sitting back having a drinking, watching porn with their pants at their ankles, and them wrapping a pair of my panties around their cocks while they hang out would absolutely drive me wild 😅 and I honestly don’t know how I’d react if I walked in on it 👀 how long would it take for you to reach out of I was standing like this in front of you and my husband? 😈

u/s3cr3tadmir3rs3cr3ts — 8 days ago

Wife question… how common are “jerk buds” in the lifestyle? 😂

Okay ladies (and honest husbands) I’m genuinely curious…

How common is it in the lifestyle for a husband to have a regular “jerk bud” or solo play friendship outside of full swaps? Not talking about random hookups, but like that one guy he always ends up texting when I’m out of town, busy, or not in the mood 😅

I feel like this probably happens WAY more than people admit, especially in more open-minded swinger relationships. Some of it honestly seems kinda hot to me 🥵 but I’m curious if this is actually a normal lifestyle thing or more of a quiet fantasy/side dynamic people don’t openly talk about.

Would love to hear real experiences from couples who’ve navigated this. Or some people that woudl be interested in something like this, Honestly I think it would drive me crazy knowing he had a guy over using a pair of my panties while they sat back and stroked their cocks watching some porn 😅 and I don’t even know if I’d be able to control myself if I accidentally walked in on it 👀 I'd definitely stand in front of them like this for at least a minute 😘

u/s3cr3tadmir3rs3cr3ts — 8 days ago