I (19F) have been seeing someone (19M) for about six months now. Lately, we’ve been trying to slow things down a bit and not rush into sex every time, so it feels more meaningful instead of just quick moments.
The other day, both my roommates were gone for a while, and we were just laying in bed together with him as the big spoon. We started teasing each other, which eventually led to sex. The thing is, he finished in under three minutes this time, when he usually lasts closer to an hour. Afterward, he said that when I’m on my side, the way I move my hips feels really good to him, and that I feel tighter and “like a warm blanket” around him.
My issue is that I had just started to feel something when it was already over. He’s also never made me orgasm before (he’s gotten close once).
Does anyone have advice on how he can last longer, or how we can make things better for both of us?