Hey Reddit ladies
I'm a male sub fetishist, seeking a woman who wants to use me for their pleasure. You may be Dominant, kinky, or just want some no strings orgasms from someone who won't talk back. That's a very quick summary!
More detail - I'm a 41 year old guy, based in London. And can travel. Sane, professional, successful, generally got my shit together (own place etc). Good looking, white, brown hair, average body type.
I have a huge fetish for female pleasure, being with a female being pleasured is a real art form for me. I've had success on subreddits like RAOMD. As a vanilla lover I've always been a giver. When I've switched I've always been a sensual pleasure dom.
And as a submissive, it's all about being used to give pleasure whilst being tormented myself.
And I've decided 2026 is the year for me to be used more! With this in mind - the kind of scenario I have in mind starts with us meeting in my hotel bar for a social drink. If we don't click, or decide not to proceed for whatever reason, you leave whenever you like, no worries.
If we do decide to proceed, I'll give you my key card and head up and wait for you. The next bit can be personalised obviously, but my thoughts are that when you let yourself in I am hooded, gagged with a dildo gag, wearing a chastity cage, on my back. If we've clicked enough that I trust you, you can tie me up if you like.
And then I'm yours for your use and pleasure. Take as long as you like. Ride my face. Have me kneel between your legs. Drink wine and watch TV. Ignore me for a bit if that's what floats your boat. Torment me as you will.
What I do know, is that as someone who gets off on pleasure as much as I do, not being able to get hard because of the cage is going to drive me INSANE with frustration!
Happy to explore other kinks too as we evolve. Ideally looking for a more regular dynamic, but providing a one off service can be hot too.
About you - I have no real preference on age, size, shape, colour etc. Good sense of hiegene and adventure is much more important.
In normal life, I like reading, sports, being outside, and I'm getting into cooking more and more.
Let's chat