u/sadlasso

I don’t remember where I came across the term “maintenance spanking” first, but it immediately made sense to me. Pain shouldn’t be for punishment. A girl should be spanked because it’s good for her. It reminds her of her place and keeps her being her best self. And because my hand on her ass sends a shock of electricity to her clit. That’s what I think. She should be hurt because she thrives on it. 

And so I’m very attracted to the idea of painsluts: girls who crave being hurt and used. I enjoy thinking up ways of satisfying those desires and challenging them. It’s a perfectly symbiotic relationship: a sadist needs to hurt and a painslut needs to be hurt. One is incomplete without the other. Sure, she could stub her toe or slap her own tits, but that’s not really what she wants. She wants to hurt for someone, for the pain to have meaning. She wants a man who will slap her tits and twist her nipples until she whimpers. 

That’s how I see it. Obviously, it turns me on, too. The smack of my hand on bare skin. Gasps of pain, even tears. But even beyond the fact that I get off on it, there’s meaning in it. Beauty, even. Deep fulfillment. Two people realizing their complementary needs. Fingers tracing outlines of bruises. Whispers of praise. Seeing and being seen, without having to hide. That’s what makes it good. 

That’s what I’d like to have a conversation about. I’m particularly fascinated by the psychological aspects of pain and submission, and of course the physical is great as well. Done right, pain is a beautiful exchange between two people. Get in touch if you agree.

It’s pretty simple. I like girls who are so desperate for attention that they’ll do almost anything, regardless of how degrading and humiliating it is. At least being ordered to service me is a way of being useful, proving that they have a contribution to make, even if it’s just licking my asshole and sucking on my balls while I give my attention elsewhere. 

All she needs is the command to drop to her knees and she’s crawling over, eager to please however I want. Sometimes it’ll be throating my cock while I scroll through pictures of her friends on her Insta feed. Sometimes humping my leg while her needy pussy drips onto the floor. Today it’s stroking my cock with her tongue buried in my ass. Tomorrow, who knows? Maybe it’s bending over and spreading her asshole for my cock. Maybe it’s holding a vibrator to her clit and ruining an orgasm while she cries in frustration. The important thing is that she does what she’s told. Anything to keep me happy. Her body is a tool for my pleasure. 

That’s the sort of scenario I want to talk about. The kind of girl who wouldn’t think to say no because she needs so desperately to be useful, to get any kind of positive attention. And what I could do with her to see what lengths she’ll go to.