u/sadmum-

so i randomly had this client i never even would of thought to go up to but it was the end of the night and wanted to make some last minute money. well i’m dancing for him and i tell him tip me extra if he’s a good boy and he does and then tips me even more later in the night when i’m already home. then the next day he comes back to see me and we do like 3 songs for like $300 lmao it was also the end of the night so we didn’t even spend much time together. well we’ve been snap chatting a little and he’ll send me lil moneys when i ask him but i’m trying to figure out how much i can really get out of him. if i should be a little nice to him here and there or just straight up domme him and mean and ask for a lot of money. he’s said things like “i like giving you my money” and “rob me” and shit like that. agh i never done this before really. well i’ve had like a foot slave dude but that was easier cuz i’ve had him for yearssss and i know he likes me being mean to him but this one’s kinda new. how do y’all navigate these finsub ? any tips?

LMAO shaking my ass hoping it don’t slip out

UGH. last night was so good for me, and i would have made at least 2.5k but one of my customers that i was in VIP with left without signing his fucking check. he had got an hour for the 1000, but then it came out to 1500 total because of the price of VIP wristband, the drinks, the fee for withdrawing the club cash and he got mad and left. said we were scamming him and shit. me and the waitress were literally showing him the receipt with everything on it. he had already given me the club cash and we had already spent a bit in VIP and had some drinks. my manager is “holding” the club cash for me until a few days to make sure the customer doesn’t dispute it. ughhhh im honestly irked about this but really hope im able to get my money. anyone ever dealt with a situation like this ? what did you do?

last night i had customers (quite literally) waiting in line to get dances/go to vip with me and although it is obviously a good thing, it was kinda stressful and hard to manage. i was like fuck. which one should i go with? i literally was just tempted to be like “ok which one of yall is gonna give me the most money?” lmao and some were previous customers so i knew them a lil and they got a little salty/jealous when i was dancing with someone else and im like fuuuck i dont wanna lose them as a customer. 🙄 i still danced for them too but i feel like i could of gotten more money if i had just chosen one. how do yall handle nights like these ??!

ever since becoming a dancer i feel like having sex only turns me on and makes me feel good if there’s money or i’m gaining something (besides the good feeling of course lol). I hadn’t done a casual hook up in foreverrrrr and I had one last night and it was amazing like the sex was great, the guy was sweet, we really clicked sexually, it had been such a long time since I’d had sex and I was like fuck yeah this is great (hoping for a consistent fuck buddy because i really don’t want a relationship rn) But then the next day i’m feeling like shit because I just gave this man free sex. And i don’t sell sex in general but i guess in a way i sell my sexuality at work so idk, now im like ugh I should of made him give me money or something 🙄😠 idk. agh. sometimes my horniness gets the best of me. and maybe i repress myself so much that when an opportunity presents itself i think i dont handle it in the best way.