I'm new on reddit. I'm learning how to use this app. I wanted to use the other confession page but they didn't allow me to do so coz my account is not old enough. I have been in relationship with by bf for a year, he always preferred a virgin woman. I had huge crush on him so lied to him that i was a virgin. But actually few months before i met him, i had two male friends (who still are my friends) whom i was intimate with a few times and once had a threesome. (Only once never again). I just wanted to feel how it was and now i regret it. My bf is very nice and kind, i don't him to be heartbroken. I love him a lot and want to marry him. Shall i tell him or shall i just lie that i am his first everything please tell i don't want to loose him.
u/sahanya__
Hello all. My Previous Account GOT BANNED coz someone was shaming me for my confession - CONFESSION LINK
So i abused him and reddit banned me. I don't think i deserve shaming coz i was young and lied to him to protect him and not hurt him.
My previous posts received mixed opinions. I also considered the hymen issue and the possibility of my vagina being loose from the people who had sex with me. Many people messaged me suggesting these two concerns — that since I haven’t had sex with my boyfriend yet, he might notice these things when we do.
So I asked my best friend, and he also advised me not to tell my boyfriend so he doesn’t get hurt. He even offered a solution (which I can’t discuss here because people might laugh or feel embarrassed).
I’m posting one last time to get a few more opinions. I’ll wait one more week and then decide whether to tell him or not.