anyone started pussy-free from the beginning?
i'm in a "looking" phase right now , one thing i that i try to mention whenever i'm asked about this dynamic is "will we have sex together"
my response is 'yes i'd love to, but also wouldn't make a big deal if i'm denied'
they take it as i'm not interested in sex while in fact i just think deep down i don't deserve it and let it only happens with bulls.
i understand this approach isn't the best and pussy-free should be built in not from the get go.
what do you think?