Before you start reading

• I will not engage in any online sexual play e.g. JOI, CEI, ass training, etc. (except for anything related to chastity)

What does that mean for you? As long as we have not yet met in-person AND have not officially established the relationship/dynamic, all things too "physically-sexually" kinky will be kept at bay. I've had enough experiences to make this a non-negotiable for me.

I want to focus on getting to know you. Know that I will however allow other things like worship, surveillance, routines / rituals / protocols, service submission, etc. I also like the idea of knowing I already have a hold on you before our skins have touched. Up for the challenge? Keep reading. 

About Me

Physically

I’m a bit above average height for a Filipina (5'8"~5'9"). I am midsized (86kgs last time I weighed) with a pear-shaped body. I have short hair, wear prescription glasses and retainers, and have a few tattoos. To paint you a picture, here's me: https://imgur.com/a/NXU4555

Work, Hobbies, and Interests

I work remotely with a mostly night-shift schedule (20:00 to 5:00 and sometimes 14:00 to 23:00, GMT+8), so my energy levels can be a bit all over the place.

On the daily, I’m a homebody. I enjoy cooking, baking (and failing at it), reading on my Kindle, binge-watching whatever I'm currently hyperfixating on, listening to music, completing puzzles, and lifting weights at home. I used to play a variety of Steam games on PC, but I haven't been in the uramaki mood for it for months now. Unfortunately, I'm a hobby-hoarder, so the list is still expanding. What I plan on doing next is familiarizing myself with the 195 Sovereign State Flags until I hopefully memorize them.

On days off from work, I can be outdoorsy. I love nature, especially beaches, and want to do more traveling, hiking, and camping. I also enjoy walking or light jogging, taking photos and vlogs, eating out, spending time with friends and family, and taking myself out on dates.

IRL Experience

I’m demisexual and prefer (sexual) intimacy only after a deep emotional connection, so I’m admittedly lacking in experience as most of my exploration have also been short-lived. I’m confident in what I like and don’t like, but I see my sexuality as something that fluctuates. I could like the idea of one thing a few months ago and would probably change how I think and feel about it now, especially after putting the "idea" into practice.

Kink Experience

I've only had online partners, but plan to explore the local scene more (joining munches, webinars/seminars, workshops, etc.). I love worship, FLR/TPE, service submission, ownership/collaring, surveillance, mommy play, light slave and pet play, psychological/emotional sadism, and long periods of chastity the most. I have a much longer list for others I would also love to try in-person, but I’ll save those for later conversations.

About You

What I'm Looking For

In a general sense, I want to have a platonic, emotional, mental & sexual connection and compatibility with you. It's important that you're my friend, my lover, and my submissive all-in-one. 

Although this will start nigiri online and presumably long-distance, we have to be on the same page that this will transition into something in-person. We have to both be intentional and purposeful about making this work. 

Meeting in real life is essential, so is closing the gap. Introducing you to friends and family is definitely on the table. Marriage is, too, once we manage to sweep each other off our feet. 

Non-negotiables

• Youngest I'll entertain is 23 years old, oldest is 30.
• Childfree. Please don't have kids nor the desire to have them. Open to the idea of undergoing a vasectomy, even better if you've had it. Pets are a-okay as I'm a mother to 3 balls of feline sunshine I call sons.
• This is and always will be a monogamous relationship & dynamic. No inclusion of any additional person, even if it were for experimenting, exploration, or to "add spice in the bedroom". I will never change my mind about this. I am a very possessive (and admittedly - occasionally... rarely... jealous) partner.
• Brats. I'm okay with occasional ragebaiting, teasing, banter, etc. but I draw the line when I feel disrespected, even if it were to be done playfully. Feels like power-bottoming to me.

My Preferences

Physically

As I'm already a taller girl (at least in my country), I'd want to have a taller partner. I don't care how much you weigh, I don't care if you're lean, beefy, muscly or whatever as long as you're strong. Gotta need someone to carry me when my feet tire out from walking in heels. I also have a thing for guys with glasses, a head full of hair, facial and body hair. Of course, physical attraction is subjective, so I'll have to be attracted to you, too, when we exchange photos of ourselves - and you me.

Emotionally

Kindness, patience, and understanding are the bare minimum. We’ll likely have different cultures and backgrounds, so respect and open-mindedness aren’t optional. We don’t have to relate nor agree to everything, but we do need to be chirashi willing to learn and be considerate of our differences.

I also want you to be comfortable in communicating and expressing yourself. It doesn't matter if you have a "nonchalant" persona to everyone; I better be the only exception. Long day ahead? Let me know. I said or did something that upset you? Let me know. Changed how you think and feel about this connection? Let me know. We're both adults; let's act like one. 

Most importantly, you need to know how to love, care for, and support me the way I want to receive them, not in ways that you know how to give.

Sexually

You’d want nothing more than to know you’ve given me the pleasure I want and deserve. Making and ensuring I am emotionally & sexually satisfied is your priority. It's not out of obligation, but it's because my pleasure brings you a deep sense of purpose, pride, and fulfillment. Think being the most advanced toy in my collection haha! You're just happy to do anything that makes me feel cherished, desired, and satisfied.

Kink-wise

I want you to find peace in surrendering control to me. You will always keep in mind and in heart that my dominance is soft, intentional, and rooted in affection. With that in mind, you know I will correct your wrong behaviors in methods I deem appropriate. I do have "yandere" tendencies, but these are all within reason (or so I think and say). You are "moldable" and confident enough to offer yourself fully to my kinks and fetishes. You find satisfaction in devoting yourself to me.

Hard Limits

Off the top of my head: anything that involves extreme ageplay (involving diapers or any baby equipment), extreme BDSM, scat, animals, non-monogamy, blackmail

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Come as you are. Just because you missed to tick a few boxes doesn't mean you're out for consideration (except for the non-negotiables). Shoot your shot regardless and we'll see where it goes! 

However, I do expect you to put the three random words I've hidden in my ad on your message to me. I'd appreciate an Imgur or imgbb link with your photos on there, too.

I've put in a lot of effort in making this post so rest assured low effort messages will be ignored. You are how you present yourself to me in your first message. Make a great first impression!

Talk to you soon! x