u/sayhellopiggie

Second one for the day and I’m genuinely baffled.
I saw a random post with some ideas I liked, so I left a normal comment. The OP (a sub) replied asking for my permission to DM me. I said sure.
He immediately messages me just to tell me he’s not into the kinks I’m into. Bro… I didn’t mention any kinks. I didn’t flirt, solicit, or even hint at anything. I just commented on the actual content of your post.
Then he doubles down with: “You shouldn’t have commented when I didn’t mention findom anywhere.”
Since when does leaving a positive comment = forcing your kinks on someone? Since when does allowing a DM out of basic curiosity mean I’m imposing anything on you?
It’s actually wild. The comment section isn’t a kink contract. If you’re that paranoid about people interacting with your content, maybe don’t ask strangers for permission to DM them? Just a thought.

I went on a date with my sub- for shopping ofcourse , while i was busy picking things out, my sub was only allowed to follow me around like a stupid puppy.
I picked leather belt - told him that I’ll be using that on him after the date, the leather was too good & strong, which made him a bit scared but also excited.

I made him pay & carry all the stuff i pick.

While he was doing a good job in the beginning but after like a half an hour , he dropped a bag of mine on the floor. I gave him a death stare as it got me pissed. “You can’t even do one job properly” that’s what i said to him & he was apologising for the next 10 mins.

So the next stop was a desert place. Only to order the chocolate mousse for me & what for him? Nothing.
I made him stare while i ate.
I left him a single crumb on the plate which i put in my mouth for a second or two & said “you can have that after you dropped my bag on the floor”

He was thankful for even a small bite. Again he continued to carry the bags even though he was famished.

I went on a date with my sub- for shopping ofcourse , while i was busy picking things out, my sub was only allowed to follow me around like a stupid puppy.
I picked leather belt - told him that I’ll be using that on him after the date, the leather was too good & strong, which made him a bit scared but also excited.

I made him pay & carry all the stuff i pick.

While he was doing a good job in the beginning but after like a half an hour , he dropped a bag of mine on the floor. I gave him a death stare as it got me pissed. “You can’t even do one job properly” that’s what i said to him & he was apologising for the next 10 mins.

So the next stop was a desert place. Only to order the chocolate mousse for me & what for him? Nothing.
I made him stare while i ate.
I left him a single crumb on the plate which i put in my mouth for a second or two & said “you can have that after you dropped my bag on the floor”

He was thankful for even a small bite. Again he continued to carry the bags even though he was famished.

The main thing that drew me into this community is seeing how desperate and eager so many guys are to contribute and make our lives easier. That, plus my own urge to be properly worshipped like a goddess, is what brought me here.

I’m genuinely looking for creative ideas to tease my IRL sub. He’s the one who originally introduced me to Reddit and this whole scene, but now he’s getting pretty jealous watching the attention I’m receiving here. I love it, and I want to lean into that jealousy in a fun way.

Fellow goddesses, what are your best tips and tricks for keeping your subs on their toes? What kinds of things make your subs extra jealous and attentive?

I’d love any teasing games, rituals, mind games, or daily practices that work well for you. Especially ones that mix his real-life submission with the online attention I’m getting.

My submissive ex got me into findom. He used to skip his own expenses just to buy me small gifts and I really really loved the small things he’d give up. After seeing how many guys on here actually get off on sending for real, I want to try it (maybe)

I’m Indian, early 20s. This kink is rare where I’m from, but I’ve noticed a lot of white guys love desi Dommes.

I’d just want to explore more of it.! Just putting it out there.

My submissive ex got me into findom. He used to skip his own expenses just to buy me small gifts and I really really loved the small things he’d give up. After seeing how many guys on here actually get off on sending for real, I want to try it (maybe)

I’m Indian, early 20s. This kink is rare where I’m from, but I’ve noticed a lot of white guys love desi Dommes.

If you’re mildly attractive, pathetic AND willing to do small consistent sends for your brown Goddess, I might give you a shot.

Just had to put it out there