Title says it all. Looking for someone to hit with. I'm a 3.5 when I'm playing regularly.
Am open to coaching up the right person but prefer you're already on my level or higher. Lmk.
Title says it all. Looking for someone to hit with. I'm a 3.5 when I'm playing regularly.
Am open to coaching up the right person but prefer you're already on my level or higher. Lmk.
6’4”. Fit. Composed.
I’m a Dominant man in the Chicago area who values control that’s steady, intentional, and felt, not loud or performative.
The mental side matters first, tension, eye contact, that shift where you start to let go without being told.
But I’m also very physical. When the chemistry is right, I like a balance... slow, sensual build… and more primal, intense energy when it naturally goes there.
Attraction matters. I take care of myself and I’m drawn to women who do the same, confident, self-aware, and comfortable being desired.
Submissive or submissive-curious is ideal, but it should feel natural, not forced or performative.
What I offer:
Calm, confident dominance
Clear communication
Physical awareness and control
Experience and maturity
I'm not looking for a long distance pen pal per se. I’d rather get to know you over text but I'm careful to invest too much before we meet for a quick drink/bite and see if there’s real chemistry.
Pics in my profile, happy to exchange more once we connect.
If this resonates, tell me: What kind of control actually pulls you in, subtle or more direct?
Let’s see if we feel it.
6’4”. Fit. Composed.
I’m a Dominant man in the Chicago area who values control that’s steady, intentional, and felt, not loud or performative.
The mental side matters first, tension, eye contact, that shift where you start to let go without being told.
But I’m also very physical. When the chemistry is right, I like a balance... slow, sensual build… and more primal, intense energy when it naturally goes there.
Attraction matters. I take care of myself and I’m drawn to women who do the same, confident, self-aware, and comfortable being desired.
Submissive or submissive-curious is ideal, but it should feel natural, not forced or performative.
What I offer:
Calm, confident dominance
Clear communication
Physical awareness and control
Experience and maturity
I'm not looking for a long distance pen pal per se. I’d rather get to know you over text but I'm careful to invest too much before we meet for a quick drink/bite and see if there’s real chemistry.
Pics in my profile, happy to exchange more once we connect.
If this resonates, tell me: What kind of control actually pulls you in, subtle or more direct?
Let’s see if we feel it.
6’4”. Fit. Composed.
I’m a Dominant man in the west suburbs who values control that’s steady, intentional, and felt, not loud or performative.
The mental side matters first, tension, eye contact, that shift where you start to let go without being told.
But I’m also very physical. When the chemistry is right, I like a balance... slow, sensual build… and more primal, intense energy when it naturally goes there.
Attraction matters. I take care of myself and I’m drawn to women who do the same, confident, self-aware, and comfortable being desired.
Submissive or submissive-curious is ideal, but it should feel natural, not forced or performative.
What I offer:
Calm, confident dominance
Clear communication
Physical awareness and control
Experience and maturity
I'm not looking for a long distance pen pal per se. I’d rather get to know you over text but I'm careful to invest too much before we meet for a quick drink/bite and see if there’s real chemistry.
Pics in my profile, happy to exchange more once we connect.
If this resonates, tell me: What kind of control actually pulls you in, subtle or more direct?
Let’s see if we feel it.
6’4”. Fit. Professional. Active.
I have a full life, but I make time for the right kind of connection, the kind that actually feels good in person, not just over text.
I’m drawn to women who take care of themselves, enjoy being desired, and don’t need everything overdefined right away. Playful, self-aware, and comfortable with a little tension.
I’m easygoing and grounded, but there’s definitely a more physical, dominant side to me that shows up naturally when the chemistry is there.
I stay active (3–4x/week). Not perfect, not trying to be — just consistent. I’m attracted to the same.
I love good conversation and getting to know you but I'm not looking for endless messaging. If we click, I’d rather meet for a drink or bite and see if it’s real.
Not looking for long distance outside of the Chicago area unless it's something spectacular and realistic.
Pics in profile. I don’t post face publicly, but happy to exchange once we connect.
Tell me what kind of connection you’ve been missing lately.
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6’4”. Fit. Composed.
I’m a Dominant man in the west suburbs who values control that’s steady, intentional, and felt, not loud or performative.
The mental side matters first, tension, eye contact, that shift where you start to let go without being told.
But I’m also very physical. When the chemistry is right, I like a balance... slow, sensual build… and more primal, intense energy when it naturally goes there.
Attraction matters. I take care of myself and I’m drawn to women who do the same, confident, self-aware, and comfortable being desired.
Submissive or submissive-curious is ideal, but it should feel natural, not forced or performative.
What I offer:
Calm, confident dominance
Clear communication
Physical awareness and control
Experience and maturity
I'm not looking for a long distance pen pal per se. I’d rather get to know you over text but I'm careful to invest too much before we meet for a quick drink/bite and see if there’s real chemistry.
Pics in profile. I don’t post face publicly, but happy to exchange once we connect.
If this resonates, tell me: What kind of control actually pulls you in, subtle or more direct?
Let’s see if we feel it.