u/scoobyfun27

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Nerdy tattooed dad looking for a fun connection

Not totally sure what I’m expecting here, but figured why not throw this into the Reddit void and see what comes back.

I’ve always found Asian women incredibly attractive. There’s just something about the mix of beauty, confidence, style, intelligence, and charm that catches my attention every time. I guess this is my way of seeing if there’s anyone out there who enjoys good conversation, flirting, and a little mutual admiration.

About me:
Married, early 40s, professional, sarcastic sense of humor, and probably what you’d call a “cool nerd.” I’m into motorcycles, fast cars, tattoos, fitness, tech, and random deep conversations that somehow spiral from movies into life philosophy at 1am.

I still work out 5-6 days a week trying to keep the dad bod from fully unlocking its final form. Cycling and swimming are my thing these days, though back in college I raced motorcycles and lived a lot louder than I probably should have.

Mostly looking for someone fun to talk with during the day. Flirty banter, interesting conversations, shared attraction, whatever naturally clicks. If you’re cute, witty, and can keep a conversation alive, we’ll probably get along just fine.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 1 day ago

43 [M4F] #SealBeach - Nerdy tattooed dad looking for a fun connection

Not totally sure what I’m expecting here, but figured why not throw this into the Reddit void and see what comes back.

I’ve always found Asian women incredibly attractive. There’s just something about the mix of beauty, confidence, style, intelligence, and charm that catches my attention every time. I guess this is my way of seeing if there’s anyone out there who enjoys good conversation, flirting, and a little mutual admiration.

About me:
Married, early 40s, professional, sarcastic sense of humor, and probably what you’d call a “cool nerd.” I’m into motorcycles, fast cars, tattoos, fitness, tech, and random deep conversations that somehow spiral from movies into life philosophy at 1am.

I still work out 5-6 days a week trying to keep the dad bod from fully unlocking its final form. Cycling and swimming are my thing these days, though back in college I raced motorcycles and lived a lot louder than I probably should have.

Mostly looking for someone fun to talk with during the day. Flirty banter, interesting conversations, shared attraction, whatever naturally clicks. If you’re cute, witty, and can keep a conversation alive, we’ll probably get along just fine.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 1 day ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Nerdy tattooed dad looking for a fun connection

Not totally sure what I’m expecting here, but figured why not throw this into the Reddit void and see what comes back.

I’ve always found Asian women incredibly attractive. There’s just something about the mix of beauty, confidence, style, intelligence, and charm that catches my attention every time. I guess this is my way of seeing if there’s anyone out there who enjoys good conversation, flirting, and a little mutual admiration.

About me:
Married, early 40s, professional, sarcastic sense of humor, and probably what you’d call a “cool nerd.” I’m into motorcycles, fast cars, tattoos, fitness, tech, and random deep conversations that somehow spiral from movies into life philosophy at 1am.

I still work out 5-6 days a week trying to keep the dad bod from fully unlocking its final form. Cycling and swimming are my thing these days, though back in college I raced motorcycles and lived a lot louder than I probably should have.

Mostly looking for someone fun to talk with during the day. Flirty banter, interesting conversations, shared attraction, whatever naturally clicks. If you’re cute, witty, and can keep a conversation alive, we’ll probably get along just fine.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 1 day ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Married dad, professional by day, inappropriate thoughts by… also day.

Work has been painfully slow lately, which sounds nice until you’re trapped in an office pretending to look productive for 8 hours straight. I’m in one of those positions where I spend more time planning, reacting, answering questions, and being “professional” than actually doing anything exciting.

Which is funny, because if my coworkers knew what was actually going on in my head half the time, HR would probably schedule a meeting immediately.

Married 10+ years. Life is good overall, no dramatic story here. But after enough years together, some things fade a bit, especially when one person has a much higher drive than the other. My wife could happily never talk about sex again. Meanwhile I’m over here trying to act normal while my brain runs on chaos and bad ideas 24/7.

So maybe this post finds someone in a similar boat?

Looking for someone fun, flirty, sarcastic, slightly inappropriate, and capable of helping make the workday less mind-numbing. A “perv-pal,” if you will. There has to be more of us out there.

Outside of work, I stay active with cycling, swimming, lifting, usually 6 days a week. Though I still fully qualify for the “dad bod with decent cardio” category.

If you can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and occasionally make me check my notifications too fast during meetings… send a message.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 5 days ago

43 [M4F] #CA - Married dad, professional by day, inappropriate thoughts by… also day. M4F

Work has been painfully slow lately, which sounds nice until you’re trapped in an office pretending to look productive for 8 hours straight. I’m in one of those positions where I spend more time planning, reacting, answering questions, and being “professional” than actually doing anything exciting.

Which is funny, because if my coworkers knew what was actually going on in my head half the time, HR would probably schedule a meeting immediately.

Married 10+ years. Life is good overall, no dramatic story here. But after enough years together, some things fade a bit, especially when one person has a much higher drive than the other. My wife could happily never talk about sex again. Meanwhile I’m over here trying to act normal while my brain runs on chaos and bad ideas 24/7.

So maybe this post finds someone in a similar boat?

Looking for someone fun, flirty, sarcastic, slightly inappropriate, and capable of helping make the workday less mind-numbing. A “perv-pal,” if you will. There has to be more of us out there.

Outside of work, I stay active with cycling, swimming, lifting, usually 6 days a week. Though I still fully qualify for the “dad bod with decent cardio” category.

If you can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and occasionally make me check my notifications too fast during meetings… send a message.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 9 days ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Married dad, professional by day, inappropriate thoughts by… also day.

Work has been painfully slow lately, which sounds nice until you’re trapped in an office pretending to look productive for 8 hours straight. I’m in one of those positions where I spend more time planning, reacting, answering questions, and being “professional” than actually doing anything exciting.

Which is funny, because if my coworkers knew what was actually going on in my head half the time, HR would probably schedule a meeting immediately.

Married 10+ years. Life is good overall, no dramatic story here. But after enough years together, some things fade a bit, especially when one person has a much higher drive than the other. My wife could happily never talk about sex again. Meanwhile I’m over here trying to act normal while my brain runs on chaos and bad ideas 24/7.

So maybe this post finds someone in a similar boat?

Looking for someone fun, flirty, sarcastic, slightly inappropriate, and capable of helping make the workday less mind-numbing. A “perv-pal,” if you will. There has to be more of us out there.

Outside of work, I stay active with cycling, swimming, lifting, usually 6 days a week. Though I still fully qualify for the “dad bod with decent cardio” category.

If you can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and occasionally make me check my notifications too fast during meetings… send a message.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 9 days ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - I can't help from being attracted to Asian women.

I am not sure how this goes but just what the heck throwing this out there and see what happens. I guess it's more of an admiration post.

Okay so I just have to say I am so enamored with Asian women. I have such a thing for them... I have always been extremely attracted to them. I have always thought they look so beautiful and stunning. The only thing... I am not married to one. I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Despite that I can't help but every time I see someone from afar I in my head just admire them.

I am a nerd at heart , though I like to say I am a 'cool' nerd. I love motorbikes, have always had some sort of motorcycle since I was 18, raced in college etc. I love fast cars and have lots of tattoos. I try and stay active, I work out 5-6x a week, cycling and swimming is my thing and just keep working. I am 40 now so it's a bit harder and not even the level I was 10 years ago sadly. So I try to keep the dad bod in check as often as I can.

So if any out there have any interest, a chat friend or whatever. Again I know this is a long shot but what the heck why not.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 12 days ago

43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I miss diving what can I say

I have always enjoyed going down on a woman, just between her legs taking the time enjoying the views, tastes, making her leg shake and the hips roll. It is so intoxicating and thrilling to have her enjoy and feeling good. Or the thought of just eating someone from behind is so dang hot too.

The thing is I am married and my partner doesn't like it and doesn't want me doing either. Every once in a while I try but she pulls me up or says no. I have the desire and over time it builds up so I just want that outlet time to time. Im horrible, I get it, but just being upfront and honest about it.

I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
I am sure this will turn to nothing but giving it a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 12 days ago

43 [M4F] #SealBeach - Where are the ladies that have a cum fetish at?

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 13 days ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Just a bored married dad looking for chat distraction

Just hanging out this evening, not much going on. So it would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

Anyways, I figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot nonetheless. I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
So if anyone up to chat hit me up.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 13 days ago

43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Just a bored married dad here who cant help but notice and admire

I have been married a long time now, 13 years. I have found myself more and more being attracted to younger women. Being out and seeing those younger women, with their energy and spunk it's so alluring. I swim often for workouts so seeing them also I can't help notice the young body as well.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 14 days ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Just a bored married dad looking for chat distraction

Just hanging out this evening, not much going on. So it would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

Anyways, I figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot nonetheless. I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
So if anyone up to chat hit me up.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 15 days ago

43 [M4F] #LongBeach - Just a bored married dad looking for chat distraction

Just hanging out this evening, not much going on. So it would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

Anyways, I figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot nonetheless. I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
So if anyone up to chat hit me up.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 15 days ago

I have been married a long time now, 13 years. I have found myself more and more being attracted to younger women. Being out and seeing those younger women, with their energy and spunk it's so alluring. I swim often for workouts so seeing them also I can't help notice the young body as well.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 16 days ago

Work has been pretty slow lately and I am just in my office alone. So most of the time I am just plugging away at work, there is lots to do but that still doesn't mean it isn't boring and mundane most of the time. I am in a high position so most of what I do is reactive to things, being available for people and more planning. With being in that position it means that with all people I have to be "work me" and professional etc.... yet little do they really know that under it all I am just an old perv what can I say...... So it would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

Anyways, I figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot nonetheless. I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
So if anyone up to chat hit me up.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 18 days ago

Work has been pretty slow lately and I am just in my office alone. So most of the time I am just plugging away at work, there is lots to do but that still doesn't mean it isn't boring and mundane most of the time. I am in a high position so most of what I do is reactive to things, being available for people and more planning. With being in that position it means that with all people I have to be "work me" and professional etc.... yet little do they really know that under it all I am just an old perv what can I say...... So it would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is very low. She never really wants it and anytime I bring up sexual things it's a "chore" and just "immature", 'You always think of that". So I often just have to hide what is on my mind. Combined with being at work means it's just always pent up. So throwing this out there and see if anyone else same boat maybe? Anyone else where it's just always on their mind? Needing a little outlet here and there a 'Perv-Pal' is that a thing? I wish it was... maybe someone else needs a perv-pal too.

Anyways, I figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot nonetheless. I am an active person so I work out 6days a week between cycling, swimming and lifting. Though that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life. Is what it is but try to keep it in check.
So if anyone up to chat hit me up.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 18 days ago

At work in my office on my own, no real motivation to be productive ... So would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 18 days ago

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 19 days ago

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 19 days ago

Im just hanging out, lazy Sunday and all. ... So would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

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u/scoobyfun27 — 20 days ago