u/scottyvaIandry

My daughter is 18 and lives with me while she's at the local university. She's my world and always has been. After my divorce and her mother’s unexpected passing, she went through a period of deep grief at a very vulnerable time and I have been her rock, she's my princess.

Lately, she's been dressing more...lewd I guess. Not the casual big T-shirt and comfortable underwear lewd. She's been wearing bras that emphasize her cleavage without a shirt and panties that show her cheeks, not the kind you wear all day. I'm no stranger to girls exploring their sexuality through expression but this was rather overt.

I decided not to date till she was at least 18 out of respect for her but I didn't anticipate her being in the home past 18. I still have desires and it shames me deeply to admit that I was admiring her as a woman when she wore all that.

It's become more and more regular around the house lately. I feel uncomfortable saying anything as i don't want my daughter to feel objectified in her own home by her Father for gods sake. So it has become quite the norm.

Now, I was raised on the internet and saw the terrors and damage it could do firsthand and have always been very protective about her online activity. So with that in mind please offer me grace here.

I've always known her logins and her burner accounts. during her grief when her mom passed it was incredibly important to me to protect her online. She was in puberty, going through Covid and mom passed. During that time she had expressed desires about me online but I never gave credence to the feelings because of her traumatized state.

Recently, I took a look at her accounts again and I was appalled to find that these feelings have reemerged. 2 years ago she was expressing a need for support about the feelings and in the last 6 months she has accepted them and is fully intending on acting on them.

I found posts asking about how to go about seducing me, giving updates, planning outfits and noting my responses and behaviours. Apparently, she has been watching me in the shower and filming me changing. Most recently, she described my morning wood and how she wants to "Get him drunk and suck his daddy cock while he's asleep."

I am conflicted because these aren't just feelings. These are actionable things she's done and she has plans apparently this weekend to get me drunk and get naked in front of me somehow as her "next step in fucking dad" plan.

I am her father. I can't engage with these feelings. She's my daughter. But she's an adult now. We're both single. She's clearly thought this through.

For background, she and my son have been dating for around 2 years and are now both seniors. Over time she started coming over more and more so I naturally got to know her better. I’m a 50 year old single father.

I’ve noticed my son’s girlfriend starting to be nicer to me but didn’t think much of it at first. We’d talk sometimes but nothing out of the ordinary. I did start to maybe pick up on something when she would tease me about being single saying I could easily get a girlfriend and just the way she’d smile when looking at me. She also on a few occasions has bent over right in front of me after conveniently dropping something but again I just wrote it off as nothing at the time.

Sometimes she would come over slightly before my son was here and I’d let her in so what happened next wasn’t out of the ordinary, but last week after school she came over and asked to borrow my phone to call him since he was supposed to be here by now and hers was dead. I of course let her and offered to charge her phone too. So she took the call for a couple minutes, everything was fine apparently he just was running late or something, not sure if she already knew and just used that as an excuse or what though.

I checked through my phone and she put herself in as a contact with a heart emoji at the end and sent a pic of her with her bare ass out pointing at the mirror. I definitely have taken some glances at her but she rarely ever wore any revealing clothing so I never got a great look at how her body was. I really don’t know what to do now.