u/secretdeviant92

33 [M4A] #Online Let's Give Each Other An Escape

Attached nerd seeking fellow escape artist for witty chats, shameless flirting, and mutually enabling each other’s secret desires.

About me: sarcastic, curious, emotionally literate enough to know understand what I'm looking for. Into sci-fi, gaming, weird history rabbit holes, ongoing conversations, and the kind of chemistry that starts with “just messaging” and somehow becomes the highlight of your day.

Not looking to wreck lives or make things messy — just searching for someone smart, funny, and a little dangerous to my productivity. Bonus points if you can flirt using memes, understand obscure references, or appreciate a man who can discuss both D&D builds and existential dread.

You: clever, curious, playful, discreet, and capable of turning “hey” into a two-hour conversation.

Let’s trade stories, secrets, confessions, and be each other's dirty little secret

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u/secretdeviant92 — 2 days ago

My experience so far (and some advice needed)

Ive been there a few times now and I actually love it. Of course I enjoy the porn and the voyuer in me loves watching everything else that goes on. As a guy who is straight presenting in the day to day but with alotnof curiosity and urges I feel like it's a place where I can just exist as me.

The one thing is I've never played with anyone there. The idea of it gets me so worked up but I hesitate to cruise some random guy (I guess mostly for health and safety reasons). I'd love to indulge the fantasy of blowing someone in the straight theater or lending a helping hand in the balcony but i guess I get it my own way.

Any thoughts or advice are really appreciated

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u/secretdeviant92 — 6 days ago
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33 [M4A] In need of an Eager Mouth

Trying to keep it clean, discreet and simple. "Straight" guy here who needs someone who can host in Manhattan for oral fun.

33, dad bod, 6 inches cut here. Clean and DDF (you need to be too). Open to swapping if the vibe is right

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u/secretdeviant92 — 9 days ago
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Seeking someone to help me sate my urges. I'm mostly straight but curious and tired of waiting and fantasizing. I'd like to find the right guy to get on my knees for. Ideally we meet. Maybe stroke a little before get between your legs like an obedient slut.

If you are married or in town for work thats a big plus. You just need to be clean, discreet and able to host since I can't.

5'10 with a dad bod here

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u/secretdeviant92 — 22 days ago