After wearing a bobbed napeline cut n shaved straight across my nape, thinking it's about time to go for an even more feminine style like this, I knew once she got me into a bobbed style years ago I'd never be able to get away from it
Took the plunge to go with a very femme style during covid with short shaved pixie bobbed bowlcut so I could adjust to it while not having to go out much,. many years later and many different style variations, still shaved and femmed nice and short., it all, started with years of holding it inside and finally letting my guard down in the salon once my stylists assured me it's ok, I'm in a safe place, she has been there also, don't worry what others may think, be brave and bold and follow your desires.
Showed her the models pic in the 3rd pic here, was all dressed in white top like the models and white baggy skirt pants asked her if she could do that, she combed through my hair and says definitely hun, you have the hair for it and I think it would look wonderful. The more I started at her shaved nape bob as she was preparing the clippers the more I wanted mine like that but soon as she turned to walk back behind the chair with them I wanted to change my mind, got so nervous, began to try to tell her,it's like she could sense it and next thing I know she snapped the clippers on, pressed them to my nape and began bobbing me up very short. I could feel the transformation taking place as the clippers exposed my nape, didn't realize the extent of it until she shut the clippers, blew off all the hair, picked up the clippers again, told her it feels short, she says it is hun, getting you all bobbed up nice and short, shows me in the mirror as she asks me how I like it so far.
It was at that point I knew there was no turning back, it was happening, so many years wanting this so many years so afraid, as she started the clippers and continued shaving in my bob/bow line seeing/feeling the clippers transforming me I just blurted out with a sigh of relief, thank you please make sure its very short and feminine. That's what it took and now years later she still maintains it this way, weekly trims and reshaves, keep it looking and feeling salon fresh all the time