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Parents who found your kid's porn history what did you actually do? or If your parents found yours when you were younger…what did they do?

My teenage nephew got caught trying to access porn. Now i being a nice uncle kept it to myself but i know its only a matter of time before my son does the same and i have no idea how to handle it. Wanted to learn from the wisdom of the crowd what to do/ not to do

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u/subtlequestions69 — 5 days ago

For those whol live alternative sexual lifestyles, what's the most judgemental reaction you've received from someone you thought would be accepting.

i have been curious about this since as humans we face judgement and criticism in various forms in all walks of life so something personal and intimate may at time draw out unexpected reactions as well.

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u/subtlequestions69 — 6 days ago

Describe a fantasy you've had that is impossible to enact in reality but still turns you on. What makes it compelling despite being unachievable?

For me its a harem with my wife and a dozen of her clones. The ultimate fantasy that turns me on any time i think about it. And it is so unfortunate that it will never happen, in this lifetime at least.

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u/subtlequestions69 — 6 days ago

What have you said when you were coming out of anesthesia? How did you feel once you knew what you said?

Had a vasectomy and as I was coming out of anesthesia I apparently hit on my wife and also said "tell these docs to teach us how to do this at home and shouted "Best Sleep Ever" and then started blabbering about breakfast.

Proud that I made my wife feel special and blush even when I was out.

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u/subtlequestions69 — 10 days ago

How do Indian couples navigate conversations about sexual desires and boundaries in arranged marriages?

Asking coz mine was not an arranged marriage

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u/subtlequestions69 — 10 days ago

What's the most surprising way your partner's sexual preferences have changed over your time together?

In my wife's case sex evolved from vanilla, soft and sweet to rough to very rough heading towards extremely rough by the looks of it.

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u/subtlequestions69 — 11 days ago

Couples who roleplay, are you able to stick to the characters?

My wife and I (married 14+ years) have an active sex life and over the years have shown interest in role playing. However whenever we have tried, we have not been able to stick to the characters and end up bursting out laughing and then have sex or just have sex as usual with the only difference being the outfit that we start off with.

For the life of us we have not been able to even use one line that we normally find hot in any reference which got us interested in that specific roleplay to begin with. I want to know from ITS how (if at all possible) they have been able to stick to the characters?

Edit: I got a lot of DMs where people are offering their advise/expertise on starting off in the "lifestyle". I am not sure they understand what roleplaying in a monogamous relationship is. Just to make it clear, we do not need guidance about swinging or invoking a 3rd etc and neither are we unhappy with out sexlife. This post was purely about understanding dynamics among couples who roleplay. I will not be responding to any DMs

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u/subtlequestions69 — 13 days ago

Reddit is full of stories where people have had theeesomes and moresomes and everything is great. I would like to know more about situations where things went wrong. Need to understand the other side of the coin as well

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u/subtlequestions69 — 18 days ago