u/taiste8

Hey everyone,

My wife isn’t the naturally open or slutty type at all. She’s pretty shy and reserved most of the time. But it was actually her who brought up the idea of finding her old ex. She told me that if we managed to find him, she wouldn’t hesitate to text him, get him worked up, and straight-up ask him to fuck her.

She even kept sending me example messages she said she would actually use. Things like “Hey, how’s it going? Still want to take me against the wall?” It was really hot seeing her so forward like that.

We finally found him. She even stalks his Instagram sometimes and has been hesitating to sign up at the same gym just to see him. When she saw his recent photos she admitted she got wet and would love to get fucked by him… but now she’s full of shame, too shy, and says she’s not as attracted to him anymore. So she’s leaning heavily towards “no”.

I still feel like there’s a real crack in the door because she was the one who was excited about it at the beginning. I’d love to redirect that energy towards someone else who actually turns her on more, to help her become truly open and comfortable with the lifestyle.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you move your wife from “hesitant, ashamed and shy” to actually being open and willing?

Thanks in advance.

Hey everyone,

My wife isn’t the naturally open or slutty type at all. She’s pretty shy and reserved most of the time. But it was actually her who brought up the idea of finding her old ex. She told me that if we managed to find him, she wouldn’t hesitate to text him, get him worked up, and straight-up ask him to fuck her.

She even kept sending me example messages she said she would actually use. Things like “Hey, how’s it going? Still want to take me against the wall?” It was really hot seeing her so forward like that.

We finally found him. She even stalks his Instagram sometimes and has been hesitating to sign up at the same gym just to see him. When she saw his recent photos she admitted she got wet and would love to get fucked by him… but now she’s full of shame, too shy, and says she’s not as attracted to him anymore. So she’s leaning heavily towards “no”.

I still feel like there’s a real crack in the door because she was the one who was excited about it at the beginning. I’d love to redirect that energy towards someone else who actually turns her on more, to help her become truly open and comfortable with the lifestyle.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you move your wife from “hesitant, ashamed and shy” to actually being open and willing?

Thanks in advance.

Hey everyone,

My wife isn’t the naturally open or slutty type at all. She’s pretty shy and reserved most of the time. But it was actually her who brought up the idea of finding her old light skin ex. She told me that if we managed to find him, she wouldn’t hesitate to text him, get him worked up, and straight-up ask him to fuck her.

She even kept sending me example messages she said she would actually use. Things like “Hey, how’s it going? Still want to take me against the wall?” It was really hot seeing her so forward like that.

We finally found him. She even stalks his Instagram sometimes and has been hesitating to sign up at the same gym just to see him. When she saw his recent photos, she admitted she got wet and would love to get fucked by him… but now she’s full of shame, too shy, and says she’s not as attracted to him anymore. So she’s leaning heavily towards “no”.

I still feel like there’s a real crack in the door because she was the one who was excited about it at the beginning. I’d love to redirect that energy towards someone else who actually turns her on more, to help her become truly open and comfortable with the lifestyle.

Has anyone gone through something similar? How did you move your wife from “hesitant, ashamed and shy” to actually being open and willing?

Thanks in advance.