u/theb3stboi

Hi there, thanks for looking!

I’m a subby local to Las Vegas, though I don’t intend to be here much longer than a couple more years. I want to end up somewhere in the northwest, but I’m open to anywhere with weather. I’ve spent my life in the deserts of the Southwest, and I want to live in the rain. I’m 6’2”, have long curly hair, and I’m plus-size, though I’m actively working on it (40 pounds down this year!). I’ve been into this lifestyle since my early 20s, have met some wonderful people, and I’m hoping to meet another (you?).

Ideally, if this starts online, we would meet in person within a reasonable amount of time. No pressure, but I’m not into completely online dynamics. Give me more reasons to want to leave this place? I’m happy to share mutual photos. I’m old enough to be looking for something real and long-term, ideally monogamous (though if my partner needs their own fulfillment that could be discussed).

About me (Vanilla):

• I have my personal life mostly together, a home, a career in IT that sometimes lets me work from home, and a bunch of dorky hobbies. I can do all the chores and maintenance and am happy to help with all of it!

• I’m firmly left-leaning, I worked in healthcare for a long time. I believe every human deserves safety, healthcare, equality, and non-discrimination. Peace, love, and light will always win. I am accepting of all gender identities, be who you are! If you don’t share these values, do not reach out to me.

• I spend a lot of time gaming on my PC, though I’m trying to branch out into handheld emulators as well (recommend some old games, please). I build Legos, I like lava lamps, I smoke weed and drink occasionally. My current favorite games are Overwatch, Counter-Strike, Stardew Valley, Deadlock, Rivals, and I’m open to just about any game. I tend to enjoy competitive multiplayer games and I always play the support role because I love helping others.

• I like to read, meditate, and ponder life’s big questions. Whether it’s 42, aliens, or our higher selves. I am not religious, but I consider myself spiritual.

• I’m a homebody, ideally my partner is someone who doesn’t mind dragging me out of the house because I’d do anything for them but days and nights in are amazing too.

• I love concerts and live music. I’m an old emo kid (bonus points if you know Coheed and Cambria, Spitalfield, Mae, or Anberlin). I also love 70s, 80s, and 90s music, smooth jazz, chill-out electronica, and lots of random stuff. I enjoy collecting vinyl records of my favorites.

• I watch more TV shows than movies, I love Star Trek, Star Wars, Norsemen, Parks and Rec, Lilyhammer, The Office, Trailer Park Boys, Tim and Eric and a bunch more.

• I love making my partner happy in any way I can, and I’m always eager for the next good boy/good girl/good slut/your preferred praise.

• Being on the fluffier side means extra good cuddles.

• There’s a lot more to me I can’t think of right now, but I hope to share it with you soon!

About me (Kinky):

• I identify as a service submissive, primarily. I am demisexual and pansexual, though I find myself much more drawn to feminine energy. Submitting to and prioritizing my partner makes me happiest. I love structure, rules, control, denial, humiliation, impact play and power exchange. I am very eager to please and be obedient; I’m not very bratty, though I do sometimes test rules if they feel unenforced. Punishments are earned and deserved; funishment for everything else.

• My absolute favorite kinks are pegging/anal toys (I’d prefer an anal-only relationship, hopefully that sounds good to you?) and diapers/ABDL. I am open to just about anything else and am willing to try anything new twice. I’ve served quite a few dominant partners in various forms and have loved many experiences. If my partner enjoys it, I will too. I also have a strong desire for oral worship, bondage, predicaments, gags, and denial.

• My limits include anything permanent, blood, needles, knives, findom, and other forms of extreme play. I don’t enjoy the pressure of PIV; I’d rather borrow your strap or use my tongue. I’d love to talk about boundaries, safewords, and aftercare early on. I prefer clear, respectful communication and ongoing check-ins.

About you:

• Someone who resonates with anything I’ve said here and feels compelled to reach out! Ideally between 25-50, though I’m open to anyone I might connect with, please don’t hesitate to message!

If you’d prefer to jump straight into a chat, I’m happy to voice or video chat instead of texting right away.

Thank you for your time!

Hi there, thanks for looking!

I’m a subby local to Las Vegas, though I don’t intend to be here much longer than a couple more years. I want to end up somewhere in the northwest, but I’m open to anywhere with weather. I’ve spent my life in the deserts of the Southwest, and I want to live in the rain. I’m 6’2”, have long curly hair, and I’m plus-size, though I’m actively working on it (40 pounds down this year!). I’ve been into this lifestyle since my early 20s, have met some wonderful people, and I’m hoping to meet another (you?).

Ideally, if this starts online, we would meet in person within a reasonable amount of time. No pressure, but I’m not into completely online dynamics. Give me more reasons to want to leave this place? I’m happy to share mutual photos. I’m old enough to be looking for something real and long-term, ideally monogamous (though if my partner needs their own fulfillment that could be discussed).

About me (Vanilla):

• I have my personal life mostly together, a home, a career in IT that sometimes lets me work from home, and a bunch of dorky hobbies. I can do all the chores and maintenance and am happy to help with all of it!

• I’m firmly left-leaning, I worked in healthcare for a long time. I believe every human deserves safety, healthcare, equality, and non-discrimination. Peace, love, and light will always win. I am accepting of all gender identities, be who you are! If you don’t share these values, do not reach out to me.

• I spend a lot of time gaming on my PC, though I’m trying to branch out into handheld emulators as well (recommend some old games, please). I build Legos, I like lava lamps, I smoke weed and drink occasionally. My current favorite games are Overwatch, Counter-Strike, Stardew Valley, Deadlock, Rivals, and I’m open to just about any game. I tend to enjoy competitive multiplayer games and I always play the support role because I love helping others.

• I like to read, meditate, and ponder life’s big questions. Whether it’s 42, aliens, or our higher selves. I am not religious, but I consider myself spiritual.

• I’m a homebody, ideally my partner is someone who doesn’t mind dragging me out of the house because I’d do anything for them but days and nights in are amazing too.

• I love concerts and live music. I’m an old emo kid (bonus points if you know Coheed and Cambria, Spitalfield, Mae, or Anberlin). I also love 70s, 80s, and 90s music, smooth jazz, chill-out electronica, and lots of random stuff. I enjoy collecting vinyl records of my favorites.

• I watch more TV shows than movies, I love Star Trek, Star Wars, Norsemen, Parks and Rec, Lilyhammer, The Office, Trailer Park Boys, Tim and Eric and a bunch more.

• I love making my partner happy in any way I can, and I’m always eager for the next good boy/good girl/good slut/your preferred praise.

• Being on the fluffier side means extra good cuddles.

• There’s a lot more to me I can’t think of right now, but I hope to share it with you soon!

About me (Kinky):

• I identify as a service submissive, primarily. I am demisexual and pansexual, though I find myself much more drawn to feminine energy. Submitting to and prioritizing my partner makes me happiest. I love structure, rules, control, denial, humiliation, impact play and power exchange. I am very eager to please and be obedient; I’m not very bratty, though I do sometimes test rules if they feel unenforced. Punishments are earned and deserved; funishment for everything else.

• My absolute favorite kinks are pegging/anal toys (I’d prefer an anal-only relationship, hopefully that sounds good to you?) and diapers/ABDL. I am open to just about anything else and am willing to try anything new twice. I’ve served quite a few dominant partners in various forms and have loved many experiences. If my partner enjoys it, I will too. I also have a strong desire for oral worship, bondage, predicaments, gags, and denial.

• My limits include anything permanent, blood, needles, knives, findom, and other forms of extreme play. I don’t enjoy the pressure of PIV; I’d rather borrow your strap or use my tongue. I’d love to talk about boundaries, safewords, and aftercare early on. I prefer clear, respectful communication and ongoing check-ins.

About you:

• Someone who resonates with anything I’ve said here and feels compelled to reach out! Ideally between 25-50, though I’m open to anyone I might connect with, please don’t hesitate to message!

If you’d prefer to jump straight into a chat, I’m happy to voice or video chat instead of texting right away.

Thank you for your time!

Hi there, thanks for looking!

I’m a subby local to Las Vegas, though I don’t intend to be here much longer than a couple more years. I want to end up somewhere in the northwest, but I’m open to anywhere with weather. I’ve spent my life in the deserts of the Southwest, and I want to live in the rain. I’m 6’2”, have long curly hair, and I’m plus-size, though I’m actively working on it (40 pounds down this year!). I’ve been into this lifestyle since my early 20s, have met some wonderful people, and I’m hoping to meet another (you?).

Ideally, if this starts online, we would meet in person within a reasonable amount of time. No pressure, but I’m not into completely online dynamics. Give me more reasons to want to leave this place? I’m happy to share mutual photos. I’m old enough to be looking for something real and long-term, ideally monogamous (though if my partner needs their own fulfillment that could be discussed).

About me (Vanilla):

• I have my personal life mostly together, a home, a career in IT that sometimes lets me work from home, and a bunch of dorky hobbies. I can do all the chores and maintenance and am happy to help with all of it!

• I’m firmly left-leaning, I worked in healthcare for a long time. I believe every human deserves safety, healthcare, equality, and non-discrimination. Peace, love, and light will always win. I am accepting of all gender identities, be who you are! If you don’t share these values, do not reach out to me.

• I spend a lot of time gaming on my PC, though I’m trying to branch out into handheld emulators as well (recommend some old games, please). I build Legos, I like lava lamps, I smoke weed and drink occasionally. My current favorite games are Overwatch, Counter-Strike, Stardew Valley, Deadlock, Rivals, and I’m open to just about any game. I tend to enjoy competitive multiplayer games and I always play the support role because I love helping others.

• I like to read, meditate, and ponder life’s big questions. Whether it’s 42, aliens, or our higher selves. I am not religious, but I consider myself spiritual.

• I’m a homebody, ideally my partner is someone who doesn’t mind dragging me out of the house because I’d do anything for them but days and nights in are amazing too.

• I love concerts and live music. I’m an old emo kid (bonus points if you know Coheed and Cambria, Spitalfield, Mae, or Anberlin). I also love 70s, 80s, and 90s music, smooth jazz, chill-out electronica, and lots of random stuff. I enjoy collecting vinyl records of my favorites.

• I watch more TV shows than movies, I love Star Trek, Star Wars, Norsemen, Parks and Rec, Lilyhammer, The Office, Trailer Park Boys, Tim and Eric and a bunch more.

• I love making my partner happy in any way I can, and I’m always eager for the next good boy/good girl/good slut/your preferred praise.

• Being on the fluffier side means extra good cuddles.

• There’s a lot more to me I can’t think of right now, but I hope to share it with you soon!

About me (Kinky):

• I identify as a service submissive, primarily. I am demisexual and pansexual, though I find myself much more drawn to feminine energy. Submitting to and prioritizing my partner makes me happiest. I love structure, rules, control, denial, humiliation, impact play and power exchange. I am very eager to please and be obedient; I’m not very bratty, though I do sometimes test rules if they feel unenforced. Punishments are earned and deserved; funishment for everything else.

• My absolute favorite kinks are pegging/anal toys (I’d prefer an anal-only relationship, hopefully that sounds good to you?) and diapers/ABDL. I am open to just about anything else and am willing to try anything new twice. I’ve served quite a few dominant partners in various forms and have loved many experiences. If my partner enjoys it, I will too. I also have a strong desire for oral worship, bondage, predicaments, gags, and denial.

• My limits include anything permanent, blood, needles, knives, findom, and other forms of extreme play. I don’t enjoy the pressure of PIV; I’d rather borrow your strap or use my tongue. I’d love to talk about boundaries, safewords, and aftercare early on. I prefer clear, respectful communication and ongoing check-ins.

About you:

• Someone who resonates with anything I’ve said here and feels compelled to reach out! Ideally between 25-50, though I’m open to anyone I might connect with, please don’t hesitate to message!

If you’d prefer to jump straight into a chat, I’m happy to voice or video chat instead of texting right away.

Thank you for your time!

Hi there, thanks for looking!

I’m a subby local to Las Vegas, though I don’t intend to be here much longer than a couple more years. I want to end up somewhere in the northwest, but I’m open to anywhere with weather. I’ve spent my life in the deserts of the Southwest, and I want to live in the rain. I’m 6’2”, have long curly hair, and I’m plus-size, though I’m actively working on it (40 pounds down this year!). I’ve been into this lifestyle since my early 20s, have met some wonderful people, and I’m hoping to meet another (you?).

Ideally, if this starts online, we would meet in person within a reasonable amount of time. No pressure, but I’m not into completely online dynamics. Give me more reasons to want to leave this place? I’m happy to share mutual photos. I’m old enough to be looking for something real and long-term, ideally monogamous (though if my partner needs their own fulfillment that could be discussed).

About me (Vanilla):

• I have my personal life mostly together, a home, a career in IT that sometimes lets me work from home, and a bunch of dorky hobbies. I can do all the chores and maintenance and am happy to help with all of it!

• I’m firmly left-leaning, I worked in healthcare for a long time. I believe every human deserves safety, healthcare, equality, and non-discrimination. Peace, love, and light will always win. I am accepting of all gender identities, be who you are! If you don’t share these values, do not reach out to me.

• I spend a lot of time gaming on my PC, though I’m trying to branch out into handheld emulators as well (recommend some old games, please). I build Legos, I like lava lamps, I smoke weed and drink occasionally. My current favorite games are Overwatch, Counter-Strike, Stardew Valley, Deadlock, Rivals, and I’m open to just about any game. I tend to enjoy competitive multiplayer games and I always play the support role because I love helping others.

• I like to read, meditate, and ponder life’s big questions. Whether it’s 42, aliens, or our higher selves. I am not religious, but I consider myself spiritual.

• I’m a homebody, ideally my partner is someone who doesn’t mind dragging me out of the house because I’d do anything for them but days and nights in are amazing too.

• I love concerts and live music. I’m an old emo kid (bonus points if you know Coheed and Cambria, Spitalfield, Mae, or Anberlin). I also love 70s, 80s, and 90s music, smooth jazz, chill-out electronica, and lots of random stuff. I enjoy collecting vinyl records of my favorites.

• I watch more TV shows than movies, I love Star Trek, Star Wars, Norsemen, Parks and Rec, Lilyhammer, The Office, Trailer Park Boys, Tim and Eric and a bunch more.

• I love making my partner happy in any way I can, and I’m always eager for the next good boy/good girl/good slut/your preferred praise.

• Being on the fluffier side means extra good cuddles.

• There’s a lot more to me I can’t think of right now, but I hope to share it with you soon!

About me (Kinky):

• I identify as a service submissive, primarily. I am demisexual and pansexual, though I find myself much more drawn to feminine energy. Submitting to and prioritizing my partner makes me happiest. I love structure, rules, control, denial, humiliation, impact play and power exchange. I am very eager to please and be obedient; I’m not very bratty, though I do sometimes test rules if they feel unenforced. Punishments are earned and deserved; funishment for everything else.

• My absolute favorite kinks are pegging/anal toys (I’d prefer an anal-only relationship, hopefully that sounds good to you?) and diapers/ABDL. I am open to just about anything else and am willing to try anything new twice. I’ve served quite a few dominant partners in various forms and have loved many experiences. If my partner enjoys it, I will too. I also have a strong desire for oral worship, bondage, predicaments, gags, and denial.

• My limits include anything permanent, blood, needles, knives, findom, and other forms of extreme play. I don’t enjoy the pressure of PIV; I’d rather borrow your strap or use my tongue. I’d love to talk about boundaries, safewords, and aftercare early on. I prefer clear, respectful communication and ongoing check-ins.

About you:

• Someone who resonates with anything I’ve said here and feels compelled to reach out! Ideally between 25-50, though I’m open to anyone I might connect with, please don’t hesitate to message!

If you’d prefer to jump straight into a chat, I’m happy to voice or video chat instead of texting right away.

Thank you for your time!

I was playing a popular team game online by myself last weekend and decided to consume some alcohol during the game, loosen up and enjoy my Saturday night. I always main support roles and was being a good healslut for all the randoms. I usually end up playing alone solo queuing as healer as none of my friends play the game.

I made a little tease for myself, that if my team lost while I was supporting as a healer that I would do a sip of alcohol. I won and lost a few. I decided to try and let the chat know at the start of the round, that if we lost I had to do a drink and to please be kind.

I found most players on the other team tried a lot harder to win and, not surprisingly, a few of my teammates went out of their way to make my job harder as healer as well. I got some fun attention and comments that made me lean into being a sluttier healer. I started to feel a decent buzz.

As the night went on and I was getting turned by the praise and degradation alike, I decided that if we lost I would also use one of my gags for the duration of the next game, since I kept complaining about losing. I had enough of a buzz to mention that if I lost I would be doing a drink and be gagged. This led to a few friend requests and we had a group of 3ish people at one point. One of them was quite happy I was being punished when we lost.

It was nice to have found some encouraging people randomly. The one who was happy I remained gagged said we would play again soon. We haven't linked up again yet but I am looking forward to it! I really enjoyed all the random attention for being both a good and bad healslut for them.