u/theoneandonlybigjoe

32M4A for your pleasure?

32M here, looking for someone to use me?

I have dildos, plugs, sounding rods, panties, skirts, heels.

Im looking to be sued for someone else's pleasure? Tell me what to do and ill send proof? Been kind of in a low and need someone to be proud? Gentle femdom would be nice, but anyone is free to tell me what to do. Make me cum or dont? I just want to be told how good im doing

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u/theoneandonlybigjoe — 11 days ago

STOP FOCUSING ON YOURSELF

33m here, been cumming from anal for the last 5 years, here's what helped me

Been trying to sissygasm but cant reach it?

Feel like you have to pee and end up ruining it?

Feel like you are ALMOST THERE, shaking, leaking and about to cum, but then it just dissappear?

Stop focusing on yourself, you are tensing your body up and its ruining your chances on cumming like a real slut

Here's what will help

  1. Give yourself time

Alot of us dont have enough time in the day to just focus on masturbating. Everyone thinks "i have a free hour, im gonna make myself cum" dont do that, you'll never achieve it. Give yourself time, you have the house to yourself for a whole day? Go for it, you have a business trip and will be in a hotel for the day? Do it then. Stop trying to rush yourself into cumming like a sissy

  1. Learn what your body likes

Learn what feels best, there a certain toy that feels better than others? Use that one. You feel more relaxed while wearing your cage? Do that. You enjoy more girth, or length? Listen to your body on what feels best

  1. Dress the part

Dress how you want! Want to be a blue collar manly man who takes it up the ass? Wear a vest and a hard hat. Want to be the lingerie slut and put on your series outfit? Do it. Or maybe you want to be the nightclub goth girl that has the tight fishnets on who just wants to be used. Wear what you want and enjoy it, dont rush to get dressed up, enjoy the process, put on some music or hypno and enjoy getting ready

  1. Toys (duh)

In the beginning dont just start going at it as fast as you can with your toys trying to achieve your sissygasm, try different size and shaped toys to find which one feels best for you. Maybe you need a big toy to feel full? Size yourself up slowly then and get to that big one. Maybe you need length to go as deep as possible. Maybe you need vibrating or moving toys to get you those pressure points. A big one is sounding, stretching your clitty hole u until it feels good. Work up to those bigger sizes until your little clit hole or asshole are pleasurable

  1. Lube (fucking duh)

Please for the love of god use lube, ALOT of it, you need to be lubed constantly, the more the better

Now I bet you are wondering "this post says to not focus on yourself, but all of this is just focusing on me" im getting to that

  1. STOP FOCUSING ON YOURSELF

you got into this with just your pleasure in mind when you are fucking yourself. GO SLOW and teach yourself to focus on the toys pleasure instead of your own. Pretend that toy is a real cock, dont you want them to feel good? Dont they deserve to feel as good as you? You spent all this time focusing on yourself with your outfits, and toy sizes, and everything else, but you never thought about their pleasure did you?

Start slow, make yourself feel good, but a few minutes in change your mindset and tell yourself "im gonna milk this fucking cock dry" and focus solely on the pleasure of that toy, dont rush it, enjoy it, eventually you will feel it coming, but so are they 😏 build up to it and give that toy the ride of a lifetime. I promise you with shoot a load through your cage that will hit the ceiling

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u/theoneandonlybigjoe — 11 days ago

Thank you!

Big shout out to everyone who replied on my post the other day!

Big shout out to Vanessa who suggested i fill my condom and put it over my dildo, poke a hole in it and suck it all out, hope you enjoyed the pics!

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u/theoneandonlybigjoe — 15 days ago

I tried freezing it, shooting directly into my mouth, licking from my hand and from the floor, feels like its just getting boring. Im open to any ideas

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u/theoneandonlybigjoe — 16 days ago