Hi! I'm 36/m, currently living in St. Louis, Missouri. While I like it here, I've also been soft looking for a change in scenery. Nothing is set, and I'm definitely staying in MO for the near future... But all this is to say that I'm open to relocating. I'd prefer to stay in the Midwest -- it's possible but unlikely I'll move farther -- but if you're in Minneapolis or Chicago and this post sounds interesting to you, definitely hit me up. 😉
About me: Generally a quiet introverted type. Physical touch and acts of service are my love languages. Heavily left-leaning politically. I workout and I like to hike, but most of my hobbies lean toward the nerdy side... Puzzles, board games, books, and I usually finish a couple of video games a year. I don't want to say something in this post that might dox myself, but I have a public, nerdy side gig here that I'd be happy to talk about if you're interested!
Physically, if it matters, I'm mixed Asian/white, 5'11'' and 180 lbs (although I'll lie and say I'm 6' if it'll help here).
Most of my partners have also leaned toward the quiet, nerdy type as well, but I can get along with anyone as long as you're kind and well meaning. If your type of fun involves curling up with me, my cats, and a good book, then I like you.
Behind closed doors, well... I won't say too much, let's leave it for DMs? I will say that I'm very open minded and have a little bit of a switchy side, but I generally lean toward the "stern, gentle Dom" role. I like to take the lead but also like to please. Prefer monogamy but I'm open to some forms of ENM.
Toilet kinks: I enjoy scat play, but I super enjoy watersports/piss play. I've been on both the giving and receiving end... I've done a lot more receiving, but I have a preference for giving. Let me know what you're into!
Like the title says, I'm looking for an LTR first. I'm open to more casual play or FWB, but ideally I'm hoping to find my kind and kinky scat princess. If you're in the Midwest (or maybe a bit farther away) then send me a message!