u/theweekendersec

My husband enjoys watching/hearing me with another man, but for us it’s all about the vibe and chemistry first. We love spending time in our small, dimly lit music room, sharing some drinks, a few puffs, good conversation, and plenty of laughs.

We’re definitely not the “walk in and get right to it” type — a sense of humour and genuine connection are a must.

I’m used to my husband’s size (6.5–7 inches long and about 6 inches around), so we’re looking for someone similar or bigger. Cleanliness, respect, and good energy go a long way.

35 or older please. I’m 46. SJ area. We prefer to host