My fiancé (f29) made me (m30) fat
She didn’t do it on purpose and she probably doesn’t even realize it’s her fault, but without her I would have never gotten fat.
Before I met her I never found myself craving something sweet after dinner. I would actively avoid dessert, and stick to a healthy alternative. Now, Sweet Treats have become synonymous with our evenings.
Before I met her I would be in the gym for hours most nights. Now, I would much rather spend an evening cuddling on the couch with her. Even when I do workout, the length of my session has dropped because I just want to spend time with her.
Before I met her I would rarely go out to eat, I’d prefer to have my simple chicken, rice, and veggies at home. Now I can’t wait to indulge in rich, delicious food when I am out on a date with her. We have explored the city around us through an onslaught on our tastebuds.
But most of all, she’s made me feel safe. To be myself and indulge in this side of me that I have denied for so long. Her love for me has allowed me to live my authentic self and willingly gain weight. She accepts me for who I am, even if that man is softer than the one she met.