u/thisduckquacks

You know how you think of something in your head and it sounds clear, clever, exactly what you want to say but when it comes to putting those thoughts to paper - it goes blank? Here right now is that moment for me. I know what I am looking for, but when it comes to formulating it into words, it just doesn't hit. So bear with me.

I am 38 (yep it matches the title) live in NC and am married. I am not unhappy, the opposite actually, I am happy. I have a wonderful life, I have kids, a very successful career, big house, nice things, but I am still here. Why? Well let just say I have changed and have gotten older, which has led me to like things and be interested in things that are not what my wife is interested in. Some of those have to do with sexual things and some are just interests. So I am here looking to connect with like minded females.

A little more, so you have an idea of me. I have long curly hair (almost touches my shoulders) - I keep it in a pony tail most of the time, as it is wild and untamable when not (frow to the finest). I am white, get tan in the summer, and have a good portion of my nationality as Greek. I am a scorpio and I am very talented with a lot of the best things. My hobby when I actually have time is Photography and Music.

All I am seeking is to connect, we will feel it when it happens. Usually doesnt have anything to do with the things, its mostly the energy - so open up with me and lets see if we click.

I'm a business owner and by most measures I'm successful and motivated—but I'm still restless in a way that's hard to explain. I'm happily married, truly. But there's a part of me that craves more—not more sex, not necessarily more excitement, but more depth. More real conversation. More of that rush that comes from connecting with someone new.

I've tried the chase before—the kinky, the immediate, the thrilling. It was fun, but it didn't fill the void. I realized I was feeding one side of myself and starving the other.

I think there are two sides to me. One is grounded—intellectual, curious, and caring. The other is playful and a bit darker, chasing the thrill. I'm not trying to kill that second side, just wanting to lead with the first. The grounded connection is the main course. The playful side is the treat.

How we connect: I'm a big believer in the slow burn. I like starting with 99 questions and swapping photos of each other's body parts along the way. It's about discovering who we are without handing over the full picture all at once.

Telegram is the only place I share or receive photos, and it's by far my preferred platform. I value private, uninterrupted connection. This is where I do the deep conversations.

Physically: Somewhere between a dad bod and a Greek god (I'm working on it). Dark curly hair in a man bun, thick beard. Pale in winter, golden in summer. Scorpio.

Looking for: A friend first. Someone to talk with, share ideas, and build something real over time.

To break the ice: tell me something you're obsessed with lately.

Discretion is non-negotiable.