u/throw-away42885

41 M4F CST - seeking something that might not exist…

Alright so I’ve posted in the past with mixed results, but I’m looking for something more specific nowadays. Attached male here in a DB situation, but there’s also just a lack of affection, intimacy, pretty much just about everything.

I will specify that I’m not necessarily looking to change my situation or yours. However, I also want to find something where we aren’t necessarily ruling it out either. At the very least I want us to be able to daydream or fantasize about a day where we run off together. Yes I’d like this to be long term and yes, I am interested in feelings being involved. I want lust, affection, and hell maybe even love. I want whatever we can have to offer each other. The dirty and the non dirty alike.

About me: I’m most definitely into nerdy stuff, preferably you would be too. I’d love to talk about our hobbies, games we are into. Maybe we can even play together. I am a parent also. If that’s a deal breaker I get it. I’m also a bit of a bigger guy, so if that’s not your thing, I also understand. Just want to be up front and clear about it. Also bearded for what it’s worth. I know some people have a preference.

About you: preferably also into nerdy stuff. I’d love to have something in common. Maybe even something we can do together from a distance. I want more than just the lust. I want us to connect too. As I mentioned, I’m a parent, but that does not mean you need to be. Just as long as you’re accepting of the fact that I am, that’s what matters. Finally, as for looks, I don’t have a specific preference other than I like a few curves on a woman. That being said, I genuinely like women of all shapes and sizes, the personality and connection is what I find most attractive and far more important.

Anyway, I’ve rambled enough. Hopefully you’ve made it the end here and I’ve piqued your interest at least a little. If so, feel free to reach out via chat. I’d love to talk and see if we can connect. Hope to hear from you soon!

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u/throw-away42885 — 2 days ago

41 [M4F] CST - Looking for something specific…

Alright so I’ve posted in the past with mixed results, but I’m looking for something more specific nowadays. Attached male here in a DB situation, but there’s also just a lack of affection, intimacy, pretty much just about everything.

I will specify that I’m not necessarily looking to change my situation or yours. However, I also want to find something where we aren’t necessarily ruling it out either. At the very least I want us to be able to daydream or fantasize about a day where we run off together. Yes I’d like this to be long term and yes, I am interested in feelings being involved. I want lust, affection, and hell maybe even love. I want whatever we can have to offer each other. The dirty and the non dirty alike.

About me: I’m most definitely into nerdy stuff, preferably you would be too. I’d love to talk about our hobbies, games we are into. Maybe we can even play together. I am a parent also. If that’s a deal breaker I get it. I’m also a bit of a bigger guy, so if that’s not your thing, I also understand. Just want to be up front and clear about it. Also bearded for what it’s worth. I know some people have a preference.

About you: preferably also into nerdy stuff. I’d love to have something in common. Maybe even something we can do together from a distance. I want more than just the lust. I want us to connect too. As I mentioned, I’m a parent, but that does not mean you need to be. Just as long as you’re accepting of the fact that I am, that’s what matters. Finally, as for looks, I don’t have a specific preference other than I like a few curves on a woman. That being said, I genuinely like women of all shapes and sizes, the personality and connection is what I find most attractive and far more important.

Anyway, I’ve rambled enough. Hopefully you’ve made it the end here and I’ve piqued your interest at least a little. If so, feel free to reach out via chat. I’d love to talk and see if we can connect. Hope to hear from you soon!

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u/throw-away42885 — 9 days ago