34 [M4F] #CO/Online - Looking for good girl for LTR
This is kind of long, but I want to show some of who I am in hopes of attracting the right person. There's no rules but what we make together, we can just talk and get to know each other and let things happen naturally. Dating apps just dont result in anything so I'm trying here. I'm hoping to find a girl to really connect with emotionally, mentally, and eventually physically for an in person relationship. I need that connection to enjoy sex/kink with someone. If you happen to live in colorado, that'd be cool, but anywhere in the US/canada could work.
I'm 34, work in stem, like to run, hike, and snowboard. I also like to game on pc, and am generally pretty nerdy and good with tech/science. I haven't traveled a whole lot, mostly within the US and one international trip, but would like to travel more with a partner. I'm usually pretty chill in person, but can also be silly and make dumb jokes when I open up with people. Drug and disease free, can enjoy a couple drinks. Politics is exhausting, but my views heavily fall on the left. Looks wise I'm 6'0, white, decently fit from the exercise mentioned above.
I have a lot of love to give to the person I let in. Once someone is important to me in that way, I will try hard to make things work, and I want someone who will do the same. I want to know someone completely, and vice versa, with patience and understanding. I've always been dominant in relationships even before learning about kink, but also always naturally a caring/nurturing type. It's important that I know you're comfortable and happy and feel safe. I like giving praise, calling you my good girl, and babygirl. I want to be equals first, with whatever dynamic we build on top of that, you can give up as much control as you'd like after that, and I'll cherish it. I don't expect any dynamic from the start, that needs to be grown together. I'm pretty open to most things, and I really like to please/play with my partner.
I've been surprised before with who I connect with so I don't want to be too restrictive and prevent someone special from reaching out. You should ideally be stably working or in school, within the US/canada for timezones and open to meeting in person eventually, no kids. It'd be cool if you share some of my hobbies above but no requirement, I'd be open to trying new things with you of course, the important thing is spending time together. I don't care about your height, but I want a partner that is height/weight proportional, either through also exercising or just healthy in general.
If you think we'd be a good match, please message or send a chat with a bit about yourself. I'd like exchanging safe for work selfies kinda early to prevent wasting too much time, mutual attraction is important. I look forward to hearing from you.