This is just a framework, the actual privileges can be changed to suit different situations or dynamics, it can be used for both SFW and NSFW things. But you get the idea.
I am looking to brainstorm some ideas for a good reward/privilege system and would like to hear from others what works for them.
I need structure and my mommy is extremely busy and works a lot. So I'm looking for something pretty self-directed like a chart with weekly rewards. Mostly positive reinforcement.
I like the idea of a sticker chart with daily/weekly chores, adding up the total points at the end of the week, and having a "menu" of rewards to spend the points on.
I also like the Green/Yellow/Red level idea. Green level is all my normal freedoms and pleasures, yellow level is slightly less privileges, and red is basically no fun or privileges. Each level would "cost" a certain number of points from the chart.
Those that have done something similar I'd love to hear what has worked for you.
I am looking to brainstorm some ideas for a good reward/privilege system and would like to hear from others what works for them.
I need structure and my mommy is extremely busy and works a lot. So I'm looking for something pretty self-directed like a sticker chart with weekly rewards. Mostly positive reinforcement.
I like the idea of a sticker chart with daily/weekly chores, adding up the total stickers at the end of the week, and having a "menu" of rewards to spend the points on.
I also like the Green/Yellow/Red level idea. Green level is all my normal freedoms and pleasures, yellow level is slightly less privileges, and red is basically no fun or privileges. Each level would "cost" a certain number of points from the chart.
Littles/CGs that have done something similar I'd love to hear what has worked for you.
Just finished 3 hours of corner time, in silence, for an... unauthorized potty use. And let me tell you, it's not cute or fun after about the 30 minute mark. I don't even know how anyone could survive solitary confinement or anything. It felt like literally double or triple the time. It was finished off with a cold shower and I don't think I've ever looked forward to a cold shower so much before.
I'm usually super good but this time I chose to be lazy and break a rule, and then tried to lie to my CG. Long story short it didn't work out in my favor. Lol