Hey.
I’m casting my net looking for my people. The introverted weirdos, the creatives who conjure up stories and worlds in their heads. The artists, and those who find comfort in simply sharing the quiet, everyday moments of life. If you know what it feels like to be “alone together”, sharing a space while you both do your own thing, yet still enjoying each other’s company, you might be the kind of person I’m looking for. If you’re anything like me, I hope this post finds you comfortable inside a blanket burrito, with a cup of tea.
I suppose you might want to know a little bit about me. I live in Finland, am 32 years old and an engineer by trade., currently working in software. I’ve been told I’m smart, kind, gentle and even funny at times. I have a “cute and nerdy vibe” apparently and am “good at having both silly and serious conversations”. I’d say story checks out. I’m actively working on my mental health as depression is a lifelong struggle, but luckily I’m fortunate enough to get in therapy for it. It has been super helpful.
In terms of relationship, I’m looking for long term. Your location doesn’t matter that much, but of course being closer makes things easier. I’m an affectionate, cuddly person, eager to make my special person happy. While I’m personally not one to go do a lot of things on my own, I am more happy to follow that special someone. Though a fair warning: I may be scatterbrained sometimes and plum forget things.
I’m a writer, though I struggle with my muse, currently working on a romance novel. I enjoy gaming whenever the post work exhaustion allows, and my anime back catalog is frankly upsettingly long. I enjoy cooking whenever time allows and love good food in general. I go wheelchair fencing weekly, as well as hitting the gym, giving me the leeway to enjoy sweets and good food a little more. I’m also going to a sewing club, and while the end products have been less than stellar, I really enjoy it. In general, I have more things I want to do than time or resources to do them all.
For those who put stock on such things, I’m a bottom and a sub, a leo and INFP-T. That last one I found really interesting when I started looking into it! I’m also LGBTQ friendly and love pets. Cats and dogs are of course big faves, and I’ve been recently falling into a horse rabbit hole. I blame Umamusume. All that to say that while my disability prevents me from taking a pet in good conscience, I would love to have one. At the very least in me your pets get a tireless scratching machine.
In terms of bedroom preferences I would classify myself as a submissive bottom. Feet are a thing for me, as are hands and breathplay for instance. I’m not into CBT, scat or vomit, anything to do with longer term denial or chastity makes me bristle due to earlier experiences, and I’m iffy about butt stuff, though not ruling that out. I’m also a furry, which in here means a big fan of anthropomorphic animal characters. I like to use them in my writing and they frequently star in my fantasies.
While TPE type relationshipe is not necessarily the primary thing I’m looking for, I’m keeping myself open to it. The thought of submitting to the right kind of person makes me feel warm and fuzzy. You might then reasonably be wondering what kind of sub I’d be. I would classify myself as an assistant. Let’s face it: While I’m happy to try and do what chores I can, my disability makes me slow. So if you give me those kind of tasks, be prepared for it to take a lot of time. Appointments, phone calls, calendar, anything that causes mental load instead of physical I can do. Aside from that, honestly, just being taken makes me melt. If the idea of just ravaging a nerdy soft boy gets you going, I’m more than happy to volunteer as tribute!
Hope to hear from you soon. Oh, if and when you do message me, tell me what caused you to do so. Also, llet me know about your interests! I like being infodumped on.
Cheers!