Hi all,
I'm a full time working professional, typically based in Canberra (but will be transitioning back to Sydney full time soon). I come from a Chinese background, but grew up in Australia (English therefore, is my first language).
From the SFW side, I’m a working in the IT industry. I have some hobbies including board games, fitness, hiking and watching some TV shows/movies occasionally.
I would consider myself a mix of introvert and extrovert. I tend to become rather talkative to people I’m close to/comfortable with. At the same time, I do feel quite overwhelmed in large groups, and get mentally drained quite quickly.
I do tend to initiate catchups in groups or individuals quite a lot, sooo in some ways I would consider myself a bit of a leader in the SFW world, but of course, in private, I would like to be led and bossed around😉
As for my kinks, most of them are listed out in my profile, but to list out some of the main ones here:
- Chastity: The idea of surrendering my orgasms to a domme is quite a turn on. Manage my chastity and orgasms and instil rules/punishments based on obedience? You can control it via my QIUI Keypod if you wanted extra granular control and transparency.
- Teasing/edging/ruined orgasms: The idea of being denied an orgasm, and having it ruined after a lot of teasing just makes me soooo incredibly submissive and desperate to serve harder.
- Pegging: The exchange of power is what interests me in this type of play.
- Bondage: Much like chastity, I love the prospect of losing control and surrendering myself to what you have in store for me 😉
- Light impact play: Have I been naughty and need to be disciplined? Spanking, light forms of CBT should be considered 😊
- Different forms of body worship: Cunnilingus, foot worship, giving you a massage. How can I make your body feel better, and pampered?
- Lifestyle control for self-improvement: Enforcing a clean diet and exercise routine, studying routine with punishments in place if I fall off track too hard.
There’s more to it than this, but treat the above as a bit of an idea of what I like and why those types of kinks appeal to me specifically. I'm also open to exploring areas I'm not familiar with, if there are of your interest. Feel free to ask and discuss about these more via message.
What am I looking for?
I have a preference for someone who's local (Sydney). I’m looking for someone who’s female, and dominant-leaning (switch is fine, but I may not fulfil that dominant role if you desired that). In terms of general pointers that I would “prefer” (don’t need to fill in all criteria, so feel free to message regardless):
- Between 20-35 years old
- Working or studying
- Active lifestyle
- Respectful of limits (SSC please!)
- Can communicate your thoughts (no mind games type of things please!) clearly
- If online, please be within a reasonable timezone difference (I'm GMT + 10 right now)
And finally, my hard limits would be the following:
- Scat/blood
- Findom
- Public Humiliation/Blackmail
If this ad sparked your interest, feel free to send a message!