u/your_space_invader

If you dream of serving a man, meeting his needs and keeping him happy, while he does the work, makes the decisions, and gives you a place where you can feel safe, but also isn't a raging misogynist or a Trump supporter, you've come to the right place.

I'm a 31 year old dominant man, with plenty of BDSM experience and an actual professional research career. I love what I do, but the one thing I feel my life is missing right now is somebody kneeling at the door when I come home each day. I'm looking to find somebody to fill that role, to teach and train them and take care of them. Do you like the idea of being your Owner's alarm clock? Cooking for him? Holding up books while he reads? Curling up against his legs on the floor while we relaxes after a long day? If so, you'd probably be a good fit.

I have a lot of kinks, enough that I always forget some when making a list, but a lot of it focuses on degradation, humiliation, objectification, training, things like that. Here you can see a big list My politics lean quite far left, and I can't imagine myself being interested in anyone who voted for Trump, unless you're looking for me to do some serious deprogramming on you. I'd like to find a submissive I could take to a anti-genocide protest or a Pride parade, that sort of thing. More broadly about me: I do quite a bit of reading, fiction and non-fiction, watch trashy TV sometimes, I play games and appreciate a submissive who does too (the Switch is perfect for playing while you're under my desk, for instance).

On distance: while I'd ideally like to find somebody local, I put Online as well because I'd be open to talking to people further away who might be willing to relocate at some point, and I might even consider something a bit more long-distance if a person really interests me. If you're interested in me, shoot me a message and introduce yourself properly. To weed out the bots and scammers, try to include the word "antidisestablishmentarianism" in your message as well, because that's quite funny.