u/yourbffcompanioncube

39 [M4F] #AnnArbor - Neurotic Shy People Pleaser with big Peen

I've been called "An alien I have to teach how to be human" with "the girthiest cock I've seen". I have a good track record of being a good lover, the orgasm gap goes the other way with me. Will eat pussy for hours (if you want). Due to nerve damage I don't get off easily myself and don't even really care if I get off. I probably will if we fuck for a while, but I have fun either way.

Physically I'm 6'1", 195 lbs (a bit skinny fat, but I have nice thighs from being a cyclist), plentiful chest hair, youthful face. Last tested in March this year and am clean on the 13 things I tested for, willing to get up to date again before anything happens.

I'm looking for someone to go on adventures with this summer, maybe some weekend road trips to great lake beaches. Nothing serious though! I'm still getting over someone so I have limited emotional availability. I'm also aromantic I think, I do develop feelings but they happen much later than for most people and I don't tend to get the initial butterflies. I do enjoy giving and receiving romantic gestures but don't want that to lead anyone on.

I'm very into all shapes and sizes of women, due to the girthy cock and the fact that I don't always have rock hard erections/have mild ED, I absolutely love accommodating pussies. I mean I've heard the hotdog in a hallway phrase and think that I would be more like a city bus. But hopefully we can go below 50mph because I like slow sensual sex. Since I take testing and safety seriously would also like someone who feels the same way.

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u/yourbffcompanioncube — 14 days ago

Hey there! I'm an about to be 40 guy who is about 6'1", 190 lbs/average body, cute face (usually short facial hair/scruff with salt and pepper, but can shave clean if a partner prefers). A standout feature that I have is a very girthy cock.

Due to extreme shyness, I had my "firsts" much later in life than most. I had my first kiss at 23. We watched both kill bill movies in her bed and I couldn't work up the nerve to kiss her, she kissed me during the credits. Prior to that we had flirted by playing wii bowling and when we hi fived each other it turned into a brief hand holding. Very cute 😅. It didn't work out and I didn't have my first sexual experience until 26. I met a girl online, she invited me over, and we cuddled on her bean bag chair. She said "you're making me wet" and said "see?" While grabbing my hand and placing it on her pussy. I fingered her to orgasm and she said I was really good at it 😂. I had read up on how to finger someone before I came over so the Internet didn't fail me. My first time having PIV sex was with a long time cuddle buddy/FWB who I for some reason didn't put out to before. We had sex during her period, via candle light in my bedroom. When I came she begged me to stay inside her as long as I could and I found that extremely hot. I'm sure I'll think of more.

If you have moments from your past you'd like to try to relive, I'd love to hear them! Maybe we could do a role play as each others' past lovers. Note, I do have a post up about an ex I'm still in love with if you happen to see it. I'm not wanting to re enact things about that relationship, that would make me too sad I think, haha.

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u/yourbffcompanioncube — 20 days ago

Weird shy 39 year old A2 area guy with beer bottle thick cock seeks an easy fit. Tight is overrated, it's so nice when it just...slides in 🥵

u/yourbffcompanioncube — 21 days ago

Hey! I'm less than month away from my 40th (fuck...), I'm 6'1", 195 lbs/average body. I would say somewhat skinny fat, but with nice thighs because I mountain bike every day. Most people say I look young for my age/am cute. I have an unusually girthy eggplant, like approximately the width of a beer bottle (length wise it's a more modest 7"). I love it when it's an easy fit (I've had this experience with mothers, and with some other women who were either just anatomically compatible with me or were good at relaxing well enough to take a big one without any struggle). Personality wise I'm a somewhat shy people pleaser, which makes me good in bed (for someone compatible with that anyway), haha.

I'm recently out of a relationship after realizing I'm still not over an ex from like 2 relationships ago, and didn't want to lead my new gf on so I ended things with her. I am not looking for a repeat of that situation, so I'd rather keep things casual.

I'm pretty vanilla, but can dabble in being lightly submissive or dominant if you are into either of those.

I love giving oral (and rimming), heck my last partner I even ate her out during her period and I loved that too (I didn't think I would but was pleasantly surprised!) I'm not going to rush things or pressure you to cum, it's all about the journey. :p

I have recent clean test results (I got the 13 panel one from std check dot com carried out at labcorp on stadium, was clean on all of those as of March 2026, and I can get up to date again if you prefer). Also prefer others who take testing seriously. Open to using or not using condoms depending on how much we feel comfortable with each other after discussing test results and risk factors. Obviously, I am not looking to catch anything...

I do have some interests that I'd love to explore, but highly optional. I love being on the receiving end of watersports (pee on me plz?). I love smelling a partner's body odor, so feel free to skip deodorant around me. I have minimal experience with anal since I'm too big for most people (only done it once) but always down to explore that too if my partner is (with extra emphasis on testing/etc since I know that's one of the riskier things). I am extremely into messy sex, like I absolutely want your juices all over my face and cock. If we have anal I wouldn't want you to do any extensive prep for me, let it be messy, etc.

Outside of the bedroom, I'd be particularly interested in finding someone to do outdoorsy stuff with and/or potentially going on a road trip up north. This is also highly optional, though!

I'm into all different ages and body types and don't really have a type (well I do, but not that I can easily put into words) so don't be shy to say hi.

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u/yourbffcompanioncube — 23 days ago

I tried and...at least so far...failed to get over her, so I'm going to relegate myself to casual connections until that happens so that I don't break any hearts.

I'm a shy people pleaser who will do whatever you want. I mean not only will I orally please you for hours at a time (if you want), but I'll probably prioritize your pleasure over my ability to breath. Have fun explaining that one to the police :p. I also don't require any return pleasure, so I'm actually pretty fine with pillow princess-y dynamics.

Physically, I'm 6'1", 195 lbs/average body, cute face. I'm also extremely "size queen friendly", having a cock that is about 7" long and over 6" around (that girth is similar to the width of a beer bottle). I don't physically fit in some women and I have custom sized condoms for it. I actually prefer easy fits, if you have experience with....large objects that's a bonus :).

I do have recent clean test results (the 13 panel one from stdcheck dot com).

I'm open minded as far as who I am looking for. I mean I do tend to be picky, but I don't have a type that I can write out in words, and it has nothing to do with body type for example. Actually, one of my fantasies is to be with someone who is a SSBBW and maybe about 10 years younger than me, but I am attracted to all shapes and sizes (and ages).

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u/yourbffcompanioncube — 26 days ago