u/yummidummi

Something I wish to experience while out for drinks in a bar is to stumble into someone who won't shy away from being flirty. I can't speak for all guys here but I get really turned on when a girl can make the first move.

Honestly, I'm a pretty shy guy so when I shoot my shots, it's usually calculated. Knowing for a fact that they're game. (To be fair I also don't want to be that guy who just runs around and tries to hit on women all night- I want to enjoy the company I came with too ofc)

I want to be able to lock eyes with someone and give them a little smile, only to be reciprocated by her coming closer to me in a very 'pasimple' manner. And without hesitation, to start caressing my body and eventually "hitting" my dick on accident. Yung tipong mapapadaan yung kamay niya sa crotch ko deliberately.

I had one encounter in a bar where it was pretty close, we kept locking eyes and whenever she'd pass by our table, she'd brush her shoulders on my chest (no chairs in that bar), I'd keep my hand down, not giving her much room to pass by, and she'd hold my fingers while she walks by. Not gonna lie, that turned me on so much and it resulted in me undressing her in my mind. It's a shame that her group ended the night much sooner than mine did.

One thing I’ve learned over time is that there really isn’t one “perfect” body type when it comes to attraction and chemistry.

I’ve always been able to appreciate both ends of the spectrum when it comes to women’s bodies. I love thicker women with soft curves, wide hips, stomach rolls, thick thighs, and that naturally warm, feminine presence that makes them feel comforting and sensual at the same time. There’s something incredibly attractive about a woman who embraces every part of herself confidently and carries those curves with pride.

At the same time, I’ve always found petite women just as beautiful in a completely different way. Smaller frames, slim bodies, flat chests, tiny waists, subtle curves. There’s something effortlessly attractive about that look too. A lot of petite women carry this playful, energetic, and surprisingly intense energy that can be just as captivating.

What I appreciate most is that neither is better than the other. They’re simply different kinds of beauty, different energies, and different experiences. The women I’ve been most attracted to were never memorable because of measurements alone. They stood out because of their confidence, personality, the way they carried themselves, and how comfortable they were being exactly who they are.

Honestly, writing this while thinking back on certain experiences got me feeling some type of way lowkey lol