
r/BenevolentFindom

Findom is about dominating a sub's finances. *How* that's done matters. There's a difference between dominance and abuse.
I like to dominate responsibly. My subs always feel safe with me, and that's important. How else are we gonna build trust?
FYI we check profiles to see if they fit with our ethos. Suffice to say this is NOT it.
There's an inner peace that comes with self acceptance. I'm living proof that findom can be done in a healthy, sustainable way that's still extremely hot 🔥
It's time to get off the fence and accept that this is a real kink for you. Fighting your true nature will only continue to cause you pain. There is bliss waiting for you on the other side of your resistance. It's in your best interest to surrender to a domme who respects your limits, cares about how things affect you, and makes you feel safe. It's time to accept yourself.
What I like most about being a domme...
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I think for me it's definitely the connection. There's a depth, a rawness, a realness, a vulnerability and a powerful trust... a particular kind of deep bond that only a domme and a sub in a long term dynamic can know. I'm also a huge fan of clear direct communication, and this realm is really a good space in which to practice that.