r/BenevolentFindom

Devilish red toenails. Calm confidence. Absolute control. Taking pleasure in teasing you and watching you squirm.
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Devilish red toenails. Calm confidence. Absolute control. Taking pleasure in teasing you and watching you squirm.

u/Naive_Cry_6479 — 1 day ago
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Findom is about dominating a sub's finances. *How* that's done matters. There's a difference between dominance and abuse.

I like to dominate responsibly. My subs always feel safe with me, and that's important. How else are we gonna build trust?

u/Queen_Sorsha — 1 day ago

There's an inner peace that comes with self acceptance. I'm living proof that findom can be done in a healthy, sustainable way that's still extremely hot 🔥

It's time to get off the fence and accept that this is a real kink for you. Fighting your true nature will only continue to cause you pain. There is bliss waiting for you on the other side of your resistance. It's in your best interest to surrender to a domme who respects your limits, cares about how things affect you, and makes you feel safe. It's time to accept yourself.

u/Queen_Sorsha — 6 days ago
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What I like most about being a domme...

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I think for me it's definitely the connection. There's a depth, a rawness, a realness, a vulnerability and a powerful trust... a particular kind of deep bond that only a domme and a sub in a long term dynamic can know. I'm also a huge fan of clear direct communication, and this realm is really a good space in which to practice that.

u/Queen_Sorsha — 11 days ago