r/r4rHawaii

hellow :3 as the title says i am a 26 year old woman who lives in mililani (i'm from wahiawā originally!). i'm posting in search of someone (preferably a man, but women and nonbinary people are also welcome!) to become close with. IDEALLY, i would like a connection beyond the physical, and something lasting (whether that be a long-term physical relationship, something "serious", or just a friendship!!)

some more things about me: i'm hapa (filipino-hawaiian-white), born and raised here on oʻahu. fair skin, dark brown hair, brown eyes. you have to be okay with me kinda being ugly. like... don't message me at all if you're gonna ask for a picture of me and then block me once you see me. i have a rare condition that impacts my body's ability to store fat. so if you don't want to be around a woman with a very muscular body and a fat face, just please don't even bother messaging me. it really negatively affects me, especially with the amount of people who are downright mean about my appearance. (it's literally, genetically beyond my control.)

hobbies/interests we can talk about (let me know if we share any): reading (especially horror and speculative fiction), writing, running, cooking, making concept playlists, public transportation, concrete, monsters (particularly godzilla), knitting/crocheting, collecting and playing with tamagotchis, learning german, fish (i don't know how to fish, i just love animals that live in water), psychology and other social sciences. on a sexual note, i REALLY enjoy giving head 🤷🏻‍♀️ especially if you are large enough to go down my throat 😅

if you DO decide to message me, please introduce yourself!! i appreciate all messages, but when they only say "hey" or give me nothing about you, i don't know how to reply!! i look forward to meeting you :3

32M in Hilo looking for discreet, no-strings-attached fun with the right woman.

Clean, fit, respectful, and 100% DDF. I keep things low-key, drama-free, and private — your discretion is just as important as mine. Open to a one-time meet or ongoing casual if the chemistry clicks.

I’m easygoing, good vibes only, and enjoy making the most of some fun in paradise without complications. If you’re in the area, clean, and looking for the same, let’s connect.