I believe that most people misunderstand dominance. Many think it’s confidence, or strength, or being loud. But I feel real dominance is attention and observation. Knowing exactly what a cunt wants emotionally before they admit it to themselves.
Most cunts walk through life desperate to surrender responsibility to someone else. Not just in bed, but everywhere. They want structure, approval, restraint, punishment, reassurance. They want someone to tell them who they are if they’re worthy. Once you recognize that hunger, it becomes almost effortless to shape them into the perfect slut they’re meant to be.
And inevitably the gratitude will follow. When you push a boundary (with communication ofc), withdraw affection, or tighten the leash a little then a good count knows how to lean into that even more. Eventually they will understand the romance within the control itself.
Long before j properly started exploring and learning about this I had concerns about the ability of this dynamic to be anything other that one-sided. Now I truly feel most cunts are secretly searching for it, or some % of it. Some want freedom; others want someone strong enough to take it away from them for a while. They want to feel owned by something bigger than themselves.
Now I love finding just the right little slut who knows she craves losing that control, being shaped and molded into her perfect self, and I realize how content and happy that can make someone to be of service: and to give everything they can to an owner who they know will make them better.