u/AaronDov

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I hope you'll read the entire post. If you won't, I'm likely not what you're looking for, nor are you what I seek. And if starting off with a real conversation seems like too much of a bother, I'm not your guy.

I'm looking for a phone sex partner - possibly medium term - who enjoys intelligent, eloquent, respectful conversation. I value education, the wider world it reveals, and where that can take a friendly chat between two people getting to know each other. I appreciate someone who has a lot to say and enjoys the chance to flex their intellect. Not everyone is an Elizabeth Bennet or Mr. Darcy, but surely we can aspire to be more than Cleetus and Lurleen!

Also, it's nice to be able to simply chat with someone during the day, on and off, even when it's not about sexy things. Perhaps especially when it's not so. Sure, phone sex is the goal, but it can't be everything... until it is. A sweat-soaked, hours-long session of play can be a wonderful way to end a week, and surely that's what we want.

I'm political and progressive and hope you're in that neighborhood, as well. If you wear a red hat, I'm not what you're looking for and I won't pretend otherwise. I enjoy talking about politics, and I follow both the Canadian and American arenas. One is my home, the other my neighbor. Both are important.

I'm a geek. I enjoy sci-fi, gaming, TTRPGs, books, and film. I'm a published writer, a podcaster, and a world-class composer of opera and Amish Techno music. Okay, fine, only some of those are true.

If you're looking for someone to be your daddy, or to treat you like a captured spy in a Cold War spy thriller, I'm not your guy. I won't degrade you, treat you cruelly, or be in any way mean.

Please don't be married. No judgment, but I won't go there. (I'm single.)

Please be in North America, otherwise we won't be able to find a time that works for both of us.

Please say more than "hi" otherwise I won't reply.

I hope you'll read the entire post. If you won't, I'm likely not what you're looking for, nor are you what I seek. And if starting off with a real conversation seems like too much of a bother, I'm not your guy.

I'm looking for a phone sex partner - possibly medium term - who enjoys intelligent, eloquent, respectful conversation. I value education, the wider world it reveals, and where that can take a friendly chat between two people getting to know each other. I appreciate someone who has a lot to say and enjoys the chance to flex their intellect. Not everyone is an Elizabeth Bennet or Mr. Darcy, but surely we can aspire to be more than Cleetus and Lurleen!

Also, it's nice to be able to simply chat with someone during the day, on and off, even when it's not about sexy things. Perhaps especially when it's not so. Sure, phone sex is the goal, but it can't be everything... until it is. A sweat-soaked, hours-long session of play can be a wonderful way to end a week, and surely that's what we want.

I'm political and progressive and hope you're in that neighborhood, as well. If you wear a red hat, I'm not what you're looking for and I won't pretend otherwise. I enjoy talking about politics, and I follow both the Canadian and American arenas. One is my home, the other my neighbor. Both are important.

I'm a geek. I enjoy sci-fi, gaming, TTRPGs, books, and film. I'm a published writer, a podcaster, and a world-class composer of opera and Amish Techno music. Okay, fine, only some of those are true.

If you're looking for someone to be your daddy, or to treat you like a captured spy in a Cold War spy thriller, I'm not your guy. I won't degrade you, treat you cruelly, or be in any way mean.

Please don't be married. No judgment, but I won't go there. (I'm single.)

Please be in North America, otherwise we won't be able to find a time that works for both of us.

Please say more than "hi" otherwise I won't reply.

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I hope you'll read the entire post. If you won't, I'm likely not what you're looking for, nor are you what I seek. And if starting off with a real conversation seems like too much of a bother, I'm not your guy.

I'm looking for a phone sex partner - possibly medium term - who enjoys intelligent, eloquent, respectful conversation. I value education, the wider world it reveals, and where that can take a friendly chat between two people getting to know each other. I appreciate someone who has a lot to say and enjoys the chance to flex their intellect. Not everyone is an Elizabeth Bennet or Mr. Darcy, but surely we can aspire to be more than Cleetus and Lurleen!

Also, it's nice to be able to simply chat with someone during the day, on and off, even when it's not about sexy things. Perhaps especially when it's not so. Sure, phone sex is the goal, but it can't be everything... until it is. A sweat-soaked, hours-long session of play can be a wonderful way to end a week, and surely that's what we want.

I'm political and progressive and hope you're in that neighborhood, as well. If you wear a red hat, I'm not what you're looking for and I won't pretend otherwise. I enjoy talking about politics, and I follow both the Canadian and American arenas. One is my home, the other my neighbor. Both are important.

I'm a geek. I enjoy sci-fi, gaming, TTRPGs, books, and film. I'm a published writer, a podcaster, and a world-class composer of opera and Amish Techno music. Okay, fine, only some of those are true.

If you're looking for someone to be your daddy, or to treat you like a captured spy in a Cold War spy thriller, I'm not your guy. I won't degrade you, treat you cruelly, or be in any way mean.

Please don't be married. No judgment, but I won't go there. (I'm single.)

Please be in North America, otherwise we won't be able to find a time that works for both of us.

Please say more than "hi" otherwise I won't reply.

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respect.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Alberta, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North America, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.

One last thing. In the past, I’ve said I dislike the whole daddy thing, and that’s mostly true. More specifically, I don’t like it being the ONLY thing in a FWB relationship. Once in a while, for a change of pace… that’s fine. But if you’re looking for a Dom or a Sub or a Daddy or whatever, I’m not your guy.

I will always start from a place of equality and respect. Anything afterwards must flow from that starting place.



I hope you'll read the entire post. If you won't, I'm likely not what you're looking for, nor are you what I seek. And if starting off with a real conversation seems like too much of a bother, I'm not your guy.

I'm looking for a phone sex partner - possibly medium term - who enjoys intelligent, eloquent, respectful conversation. I value education, the wider world it reveals, and where that can take a friendly chat between two people getting to know each other. I appreciate someone who has a lot to say and enjoys the chance to flex their intellect. Not everyone is an Elizabeth Bennet or Mr. Darcy, but surely we can aspire to be more than Cleetus and Lurleen!

Also, it's nice to be able to simply chat with someone during the day, on and off, even when it's not about sexy things. Perhaps especially when it's not so. Sure, phone sex is the goal, but it can't be everything... until it is. A sweat-soaked, hours-long session of play can be a wonderful way to end a week, and surely that's what we want.

I'm political and progressive and hope you're in that neighborhood, as well. If you wear a red hat, I'm not what you're looking for and I won't pretend otherwise. I enjoy talking about politics, and I follow both the Canadian and American arenas. One is my home, the other my neighbor. Both are important.

I'm a geek. I enjoy sci-fi, gaming, TTRPGs, books, and film. I'm a published writer, a podcaster, and a world-class composer of opera and Amish Techno music. Okay, fine, only some of those are true.

If you're looking for someone to be your daddy, or to treat you like a captured spy in a Cold War spy thriller, I'm not your guy. I won't degrade you, treat you cruelly, or be in any way mean.

Please don't be married. No judgment, but I won't go there. (I'm single.)

Please be in North America, otherwise we won't be able to find a time that works for both of us.

Please say more than "hi" otherwise I won't reply.