u/Abject-Low-8385

i'm tired of starting over. tired of the getting-to-know-you small talk that goes nowhere. tired of explaining what i want to someone who's just going to ghost after a week because they got what they needed and i wasn't important enough to say goodbye to.

i want a Domme who sees this as something to build, not something to try on for size.

about me: i'm 24. i live on the east coast but i work from home so location isn't a dealbreaker. i'm 5'4, soft in the thighs and stomach, with a few scattered tattoos that don't really match but i like them anyway. i have short hair that i'm always thinking about growing out and then i never do. i dress like i'm either going to yoga or going to sleep there's no in between.

i'm a homebody at my core. i like being inside when it's raining. i like making food for someone and watching them eat it. i like falling asleep to a movie i've already seen a hundred times because the familiarity is soothing. i also have a weird obsession with horror and true crime, so if you want to put on something unsettling while we cook dinner, i'm your girl.

i'm creative in a chaotic way. i write things i'll never let anyone read. i start art projects and abandon them at 70% completion. i get hyperfixated on video games or books or random topics and i will talk about them until you gently tell me to stop. or not so gently. whichever fits the dynamic.

submission for me is about service. not the performative kind. the real kind. i want to notice things about you. how you take your coffee. the way you unwind after work. what stresses you out that i could take off your plate. i want to be useful in the quiet, unglamorous ways that actually make someone's life better.

i crave structure. i want to know what's expected of me. i want to be held accountable when i slip. i want someone who follows through on consequences, not because she's cruel but because she believes in consistency. i have a playful side i'll push back a little, test the edges but i'm not a brat looking for a fight. i just need to know you're paying attention.

what i need from you: patience. consistency. emotional intelligence. you should be a Domme who understands that being in charge isn't about being harsh it's about being steady. i tend to click with women older than me, maybe 28 to 45, but that's not a hard rule. what matters more is that you actually want something long term, not just a few weeks of fun before you get bored and move on.

outside of kink, i want a real connection. someone i can laugh with. someone who will tell me about her day and actually want to hear about mine. someone who understands that a D/s dynamic is still a relationship at its core, and relationships need the boring parts too the texting about groceries, the venting about work, the comfortable silences where nothing needs to be said.

if you've been looking for the same thing, reach out. tell me your age, where you're based, and one small thing that made you smile this week. i put real effort into this post. i need to see the same from you. low effort gets ignored.

i've done the casual thing before. the short term dynamics that fizzle out after two weeks. the people who say they want something real but disappear the second things require actual effort. i'm not doing that anymore.

i'm looking for a Domme. not for a night. not for a month. for something that lasts. something we build slowly and properly. if it becomes romantic, great. if not, that's fine too. but i need the dynamic to have legs.

about me: i'm 24, based in the US on the east coast, but i'm open to relocating for the right person. i work remote so location isn't a barrier. i'm 5'3 with a soft build, short hair, and a few tattoos. i dress cozy most of the time hoodies, leggings, the kind of clothes you can nap in.

i'm a homebody but not a hermit. i like rainy days, making soup from scratch, lighting too many candles, and falling asleep to something playing in the background. i also have a darker side — horror movies, true crime, creepy podcasts. so don't be alarmed if we go from making cookies to watching something disturbing in the same night.

i'm creative. i write. i paint badly but enthusiastically. i play video games when i should be sleeping. i get obsessed with things easily and will absolutely infodump at you about whatever has my attention that week.

what submission looks like for me is very service oriented. i want to make your life easier not in a grand way but in the small ways. remembering how you take your coffee. keeping track of things so you don't have to. doing tasks that actually help, not just busy work.

i like structure. knowing what's expected of me. being told i did a good job. i have a little bit of a bratty side but it's playful, not exhausting. i'm not here to fight you for control i want to give it to someone who deserves it.

what i'm looking for in you is a Domme cis, trans, nonbinary, all are welcome. i tend to click better with women a bit older than me, probably in the 28 to 45 range. you should be patient, consistent, and emotionally intelligent. you should know the difference between being dominant and being mean. and most importantly, you should want something long term, not just a week of fun.

outside of kink, i want someone i can actually talk to. someone who will tell me about her day and listen when i talk about mine. someone who wants to build a real connection that happens to have a D/s foundation underneath it.

if this sounds like something you've been looking for too, reach out. tell me your age, where you're based, and one small thing that made you smile this week. low effort gets ignored. i put real energy into this post and i need to see the same from you.

very high. very wet. been edging for the last hour and i can't think straight anymore.