Looking for future Doner in Spokane, WA
*reposting with proper title*
My partner(FtM 38) and I (F30) are hoping to start a family in the future, and we’re looking for someone who might be open to becoming a sperm donor when the time is right.
We’re not looking to meet someone and immediately try to conceive. Ideally, we’d like to get to know someone first—build a genuine friendship, spend time together, and see if we’re compatible as people. If a friendship develops naturally and everyone feels comfortable moving forward, we’d eventually discuss the possibility of donation and pregnancy. We are only interested in AI method. No specific looks/race. Would really like someone to be close as to not have to travel too far if it takes multiple tries.
A little about us: we’re a committed couple, and have been married for 5 years. Having a child is something we’ve talked about and hope to pursue when the circumstances are right. We’re hoping to find someone kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in being part of our lives in some capacity.
We’re open to discussing what involvement might look like in the future. We want everyone involved to feel respected, comfortable, and heard, and we’d want to have very clear conversations about expectations, boundaries, and the child’s future before making any decisions.
A few things we’re hoping for:
Someone who is serious about potentially donating in the future
Someone patient and comfortable with getting to know us first
Someone respectful and accepting of our relationship and our family
Someone willing to have honest conversations about expectations and boundaries
Ideally, someone relatively local to Spokane Washington.
There’s absolutely no pressure or expectation that a conversation will lead to donation. We’d rather meet someone we genuinely enjoy knowing and let the relationship develop naturally.
If this sounds like something you might be interested in, feel free to message us and tell us a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what made you respond to our post.