u/Admirable_Berry7924

Hi we are a middle aged newbie couple to the LS and looking to make friends and have fun at the same time .

We will be in Nuneaton on 27th May and wondered if there are any couples out there that would fancy meeting for friendly drinks and chat . ( no pressure to do anything )

We are not looking to swap at the moment - parallel play only -but also looking to make friends and talk about experiences and have a laugh at the same time

Please reach out if you fancy meeting up for no pressure drinks and chat

No Single Males or Females - genuine couples only please

Hi we are a newbie couple planning on going to the new V2V club in Nuneaton in a couple of weeks . It’s run by the couple that also host the Vanilla to Vixen podcast ( highly recommended ) .

We are very much looking forward to our visit and wondered if anyone had been and what was their experience like ?

Hi there we are a newbie couple based in the UK looking for other likeminded couples to make friends , learn and have fun .

We are not looking to swap , just parallel play . Being watched and watching is a massive fantasy of ours .

We are Yorkshire based - but will travel for the right couple - we are looking to make longer term friendships and maybe go on this LS journey together .

So if you are ok with parallel play , and wanting to make friends with a friendly likeminded couple please do say hello .

Hi we are a newbie couple that had the mis fortune of going to the attic in Derby earlier this week .

This was our first ever trip to any club and we were quite excited . However on entering after paying at the door we realised we were in an awful seedy place , not another couple in sight .

They have a cinema room which had sofas but were full of single men - we certainly did not feel safe at all.

We learned the Attic is not a private members club and usually clubs vet those trying to get entry. We certainly learned our lesson !! Avoid this club like the plague

We are a newbie couple M(55 straight ) and F (50 straight ) looking for our 1st experience

Parallel play only in the same room - no touching other partners ….

Genuine couples please reach out .

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Hi We are a UK based couple very new to this and excited to be starting our journey into the LS. We haven’t met up with anyone yet or been to a club .

We both agree that we want to start with Parallel Play only , however , we are unsure about the do’s and don’ts surrounding this especially in a club environment and alone in a hotel room with another couple ?

Also wanted to get people’s opinions on when and how to move on from parallel play to soft swap and further ? I know there is no set timeline for these things but would value opinions on how those discussions between couples happen ?

Many thanks - all advice and opinions appreciated .

Hi We are newbies based in Yorkshire - looking to take our 1st step into this lifestyle - naturally a little nervous - looking to parallel play with other like minded couples - no swapping at the moment .

Would love to chat and make new friends and get advice

Hi we are an older couple and newbies to this lifestyle in the UK.

We have discussed at some length how trying this space would spice up our own personal sex life and perhaps even bring us closer as a couple .

We are looking to start by trying Parallel play and then go from there . We have not visited a club as yet .

Do people have some advice for us ? A little nervous going to a club - as we are middle aged and wondered if they are full of couples in their mid 20s and 30s ?

Any advice on where to start and how to enjoy our journey would be gratefully received .

Based in Yorkshire but happy to travel for the right couple . Newbie couple looking to parallel play initially with a like minded couple willing to show us the ropes .

Straight couples only please - older or younger not an issue .