u/AffectionateLeek2749

30-year-old married guy here. Everything looks fine on the surface.

Deep down I’m very dominant. I fantasize about taking control — edging a girl until she’s shaking and pleading, calling her a good girl when she obeys, making her feel mine while still feeling desired. That craving is constant.

I’m not looking to change my marriage. I just want to connect with a woman who gets it, who leans submissive, and who might want to explore that kind of power exchange through conversation first.

Had to put this somewhere.

I’m 30, married, and life is mostly good. But there’s a part of me that stays quiet at home.

I’m naturally dominant. I keep thinking about guiding a woman, edging her slowly until she’s desperate and begging, mixing light teasing with “good girl” praise, making her feel completely owned and still deeply wanted.

I don’t want anything physical that would complicate my marriage. I just want to talk to someone who understands this side of me — a woman who leans submissive and might want that same slow, connected dynamic.

Anyone else feel this way?