u/Agitated_Gaia

Hey everyone,

Looking for some honest advice from people with fleshlight experience to impove things together in our bedroom:

My boyfriend struggles to finish from PIV sex no matter what we try. But when I use the fleshlight on him, he can finish extremely quickly, sometimes within a few strokes.

To be hones, it has started to frustrate me and makes me wonder whether this is normal or whether a Fleshlight is just that much more stimulating than actual sex.

- Is this a common thing?

- Does frequent fleshlight use condition you to respond differently to penetration?

- Have any couples successfully “reconditioned” things so PIV became easier to finish from again?

Thank you for any advice!