u/Alarmed_Finding_5203

29F - update from swallowing cum on first date.

For context read the last post: https://www.reddit.com/r/DesiDesireConfession/comments/1thxw2e/29f_do_you_swallow_on_first_date/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

For men who are asking why do we Swallow . It was never about the taste. Personally I didn't feel anything about the taste only the texture is something I am not pretty found of. Especially if cum is thick and very curvy, I dont like how it feels in my mouth. My date was a very clean neat gentleman and was neat down there. I never planned on swallowing but that happened during the heat of the moment and Especially since his precum felt great while I sucked him. Also I don't think he had control on his orgasm as I was taking it balls deep. He had said he was getting close but I somehow wanted it.

To women. The best wast to swallow it is gulp it down without thinking much . He gave me a mouthful and i had to just drink it like i love it.

And yes we went on more dates but I haven't sucked him after that. He was more into eating me. Not sure I would Swallow again on a first date but I do Swallow for my partner.

Note

Dear men dont send creepy texts to rate your tool or your bio data about how rich you are or your wife is not interested. No women is interested in creepy men.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 3 days ago

29F - do you Swallow on first date ?

This just a question i have to all the 'real' women here, do you Swallow on your first date? To the men, why did your date Swallow yours on first date?

The story is that after a long time i went out on a date with a guy I knew from last 1-2 months. I had been single for sometime and thought of going out since he asked multiple times. We actually had a great time. A cute movie , decent window shopping and banter and a great dinner. I was in my heat mode and a simple Goodnight kiss outside my apartment inside his car became full blown Makeout. He was a good kisses and and very good with his fingers, he was able to find my clit and rub me to orgasm in short time all this while I only gave him the chance to only slide his hand into my pants and never take any cloth off. But he fingered me pretty good that he didn't even bother about my bush. I was never planning to open my legs for him tbh especially on the first date.

Bur to return the favor i decide to give him a nice handjob. His dick was just glowing and glistening with all the precum that I couldn't stop thinking about taking it in my mouth. Well it's not that I never swallowed cum, I have done it almost everytime for my ex but never for a guy during the first date. Probably because of my phase or i was feeling super slutty i kept stroking it looking at him leak drops and drops of fluid . And then I just took it in my mouth, he didn't last long after that but he came like a pornstar. Tbh a lot more than I have seen in my ex. It was all over my mouth and lips that I had to take a break to even gulp it down. It was of the usual taste but less sticky and more watery and I felt like i just drinking raw protein 😂.

But he was happy, so was I. But I never understood why I just went for it even though it was my first date.

Any reltable context is helpful!

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 4 days ago

[29F] gave my 45 year old boss a handjob and he passed out right after it.

My boss and I have been having an affair since the last 2 years. We meet up often do some basic stuff and never had penetrative sex so far. That wad my condition I gave him so he stays in his limit. I pamper him well sometimes giving him kisses ,hugs and rarely handjobs to help him relive stress. He has been returning the favor by treating my pussy well with his tongue and hands. He also gifts me lot of things which makes me kind of his sugar baby.

So the dude was going on a family trip and taken wfh for 2 months to stay with his wife and kids. Apparently his wife is no longer interested in having sex and I was a good option to him. I didn't mind since he never asked me to have proper sex with him.

We were talking in his car outside a fine dine restaurant as he was leaving the city in the next 2 days. I gave him a good smooch and caressed his head for a while ,he loves it when I keep my hand over his crotch when I do that. For the first time he very sheepishly asked me i could give him a handjob.

I didn't mind because everytime I made him cum he would give me a lot of money for personal expenses. I asked him to park the car under a tree and kept rubbing over his crotch. Once we were in position, I leaned towards his crotch and rubbed it till I felt the bulge. Then I unzipped him and tool this dock out . I had seen it a couple of times already but today he had actually trimmed and kept his dick clean.

I kept jerking for him while he talked about his stress, how he misses sex and his wife is not even ready to give a handjob. He even told me stores where after his marriage his wide would suck him everyday morning and make him shoot, so that he won't even look at any other woman for the whole day.

He was sad in need of an orgams and erect. Not too big,not too small bur decent enough for a woman to moan.i unzipped his pants completely and squeezed his balls while jerking him. He moaned in his grumpy horse voice and grabbed my tits. I want to give me a very memorable vacation gift. So I keto squeezing till his precum started leaking.

He finally shot it out. Poor old man's balls were so full that he creamed the entire steering of his car and kept leaking droplets even after he came.i looked at him gave him a kiss on cheeks and caressed him , he stayed there with eyes closed dick out but going limp. I took a tisse and cleaned his dick and looked at him to ask if he needed another job but dude was just sleeping. Passed out from stress and lack of sex.

Planter anither kiss on his cheeks and let him rest for 30 mins before he dropped me at my Pg

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 12 days ago

29F - this is my guide to squirt for all the cute ladies out there !

Let me begin by saying it's purely my experience and may work for you too.

Well I am am edging addict and I have often gone for weeks without Cumming.

I always rub my clit till I feel I am wet at my hole but I don't put anything in especially it's my first day of edging after an orgasm. I ensure I edge atleast once a day, I have also used ice and press it over my clit to increase the sensitivity I feel. I do this for two days atleast and don't orgasm , go till the peak where literal my feet curl and quiver but hold myself from Cumming. Then on the third day I would be extremely sensitivity and like a cat in heat felt uncontrollable. This is where I finger myself but I don't go deep in my cunt. This too I do for two days and I would be craving an orgasm so bad that I feel very heavy and hot down there. If you too feel it this is the perfect time for you to experience a squirting orgasm.

But not every woman squirts and no woman squirts like pornstars . I myself used to feel only extreme wetness after orgasm when I was with my ex or having sex. I have fingered my best friend who leaks a bit of white fluid after orgasm. Then i know other female friends who feel there is a warmth in their pussy after orgasm. So basically all women just leak liquid but the quantity and type of squirting orgasm varies. Sometimes it could be just pee too as women loose control.

For I squirt and make my sheets wet only when I edge for 3-4 days and the best squirt was when I edge for 7 days.

Back to my orgasm, so once I am in this ready to fuck state. I use my toy,I have dildo and a vibrator for my pussy alone and butt plugs for my ass. I use dildo when i have energy to pump it in myself and vibrator when I like to just lie down and feel it build in me. Either way it works and it's about building the intensity.

So once I use toy for sometime and feel that I reach my peak. I use my fingers because your own fingers is the best tool you can use and I keep rubbing and putting my fingers in and out (2 fingers usually) till I feel it coming from me and booom ,I squirted like a water cannon all over my bed.

The best I have ever had was yesterday, so sharing my knowledge. Also record videos to see the slut you have become, I kinky.

Dear men please dont send me creepy dms, I have had and is having lot of fun. None of your 8-10 inch stuff is gonna help any woman. Unless can offer something else stay away.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 13 days ago

Context : I always loved anal and my anal experience started with my ex bf. We have used plugs on each other's ass. I hope this helps anyone with same kink a lot.

First of all getting but plugs is very easy now as there are many online platforms. If not a but plug. Get a small toy (vibrating ones are good too) . Large ones are going to be difficult initially.

Anyways read the follow. I will tell from my perspective. I always keep down there and my ass trimmed and neat. Lot of skin care too . I like to be prepared if someone wants to just eat me out of random.

Use lube preferably water based lube a lot. Keep your anal regions and asshole clean and dry. The use lot of lube, I used to take a Handful of lube and just like apply it all around the hole, finger my hole with the lube. BASICALLY ensure the passe will be smooth for plug. Asshole cant get wet like pusssy so you gotta make it wet with lube. My plug is a small one, so I sit in doggy like my ass is facing my mirror. This helps me see my asshole in reflection. I finger for sometime and open my Butt cheeks wide to expose hole. Once it's a bit loosened or adjusted to fingering going in and out I use more lube abd also apply lube on the plug.

Don't rush in with it. Slowly push it in. If it pains you need to use more lube and do more fingering. I can push it in one quick go now as I have been using plugs often. Keep the handle part out, cause you have to pull it out. Also eat light if you are having a plug in you .

Walking around with plug will feel uncomfortable initially but you can get used to it. Try to take it out once in few hours and add more lube. I have used my plug for 8 hours straight, been with it to office,party and what not.

So that's my experience. Drop in comments and I will help you as I can .

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 16 days ago

I am a very high libido woman who enjoys being with woman than men. I would like to have a kinky female friend I could text/talk everyday about impulses ,jokes and nasty stuff.

Do dm if you are a woman only . We could verify also. I use snapchat for unholy texts as chats are discreet.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 16 days ago

Let this straight, once when my hormones were making me smoking wet I posted a pic of my shaved pussy to get some attention and a random old uncle paid me to see more of my pussy pics for whatever reasons he had. I got paid and also had a good orgasm that build on my slut kink.

These are my strict boundaries:

Please don't be creepy. I enjoy men and masculinity but being creepy is far away from it.

Won't share pics on reddit, I prefer doing it in snapchat as long as we both are comfortable.

3.based on how horny I am ,I might send you pics and videos as per your request but don't overdo things, I will block you.

  1. I value my privacy a lot, would never share anything with my face on.

  2. I do have the kink to meet someone irl too but the world is scary so no plans to meet till we get comfortable and trust each other. If at all I am meeting I expect pampering and sugar benefits.

  3. Don't ask me for pica for free, you can request custom pics of whatever you want but I would only send based on what benefits I get.

  4. Into sugar style due to my kink and not for money, I would charge only small amounts but strict about it, no benefits for you unless I get my benefits and my orgasm.

  5. I charge gifts as amazing gift cards, so no payments can be traced to me and to you. Mutually safe way.

9.and if you don't trust I am a woman and ask for crazy things to prove myself, you can always stay away from dm ing me too.

Dm me with ' exclusive ' if you find the post decent, everything else will be ignored.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 19 days ago

So for context, I shared a story here about how I have been edging for a week and make myself cum with my toys on weekends. I edged 4 times alone on Friday that my clit was so sensitive. For fun I decided to post just one on few gw channles to see reaction. I mostly get desperate extremely pathetic texts or just hi. But just one dude send me detailed description of what exactly he liked. We texted for sometime and he wanted to see my pussy spread open, I was in no mood to go to that extend but he promised to pay me enough to get a new remote controlled vibratory. All I had to do was send a pic of my pussy before using the vibrator and after using it.

Happy to say I am having that new vibratory inside me while I type this post. The dude had a good jerk off and send me a tribute pic too.

Check my profile to see a sample photo

May every slut get such desperate attention

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 19 days ago

! Let me put this straight, once when my hormones were making me smoking wet I posted a pic of my shaved pussy to get some attention and a random old uncle paid me to see more of my pussy pics for whatever reasons he had. I got paid and also had a good orgasm that build on my slut kink.

These are my strict boundaries:

Please don't be creepy. I enjoy men and masculinity but being creepy is far away from it.

Won't share pics on reddit, I prefer doing it in snapchat as long as we both are comfortable.

3.based on how horny I am ,I might send you pics and videos as per your request but don't overdo things, I will block you.

  1. I value my privacy a lot, would never share anything with my face on.

  2. I do have the kink to meet someone irl too but the world is scary so no plans to meet till we get comfortable and trust each other. If at all I am meeting I expect pampering and sugar benefits.

  3. Don't ask me for pica for free, you can request custom pics of whatever you want but I would only send based on what benefits I get.

  4. Into sugar style due to my kink and not for money, I would charge only small amounts but strict about it, no benefits for you unless I get my benefits and my orgasm.

  5. I charge gifts as amazing gift cards, so no payments can be traced to me and to you. Mutually safe way.

9.and if you don't trust I am a woman and ask for crazy things to prove myself, you can always stay away from dm ing me too.

Dm me with ' exclusive ' if you find the post decent, everything else will be ignored.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 21 days ago

Let me put this straight, once when my hormones were making me smoking wet I posted a pic of my shaved pussy to get some attention and a random old uncle paid me to see more of my pussy pics for whatever reasons he had. I got paid and also had a good orgasm that build on my slut kink.

These are my strict boundaries:

  1. Please don't be creepy. I enjoy men and masculinity but being creepy is far away from it.

  2. Won't share pics on reddit, I prefer doing it in snapchat as long as we both are comfortable.

3.based on how horny I am ,I might send you pics and videos as per your request but don't overdo things, I will block you.

  1. I value my privacy a lot, would never share anything with my face on.

  2. I do have the kink to meet someone irl too but the world is scary so no plans to meet till we get comfortable and trust each other. If at all I am meeting I expect pampering and sugar benefits.

  3. Don't ask me for pica for free, you can request custom pics of whatever you want but I would only send based on what benefits I get.

  4. Into sugar style due to my kink and not for money, I would charge only small amounts but strict about it, no benefits for you unless I get my benefits and my orgasm.

  5. I charge gifts as amazing gift cards, so no payments can be traced to me and to you. Mutually safe way.

9.and if you don't trust I am a woman and ask for crazy things to prove myself, you can always stay away from dm ing me too.

Dm me with ' exclusive ' if you find the post decent, everything else will be ignored.

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 24 days ago

Basically the title. TBH I need money and orgasm, looking for a gentleman who can spoil me , we can sext, I dont mind sharing nudes as long as I get monetary benefits. If you turn out to be a gentleman, could also meet but I don't meet directly. Need to know you are genuine, STD free and a proper sugar daddy

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 26 days ago

Basically the title. TBH I need money and orgasm, looking for a gentleman who can spoil me , we can sex , I dont mind sharing nudes as long as I get monetary benefits. If you turn out to be a gentleman, could also meet but I don't meet directly. Need to know you are genuine, STD free and a proper sugar daddy

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u/Alarmed_Finding_5203 — 26 days ago