u/AliceInBondageLand

San Francisco Gender Adventurers August 19th Meetup & Afterparty

Wednesday, August 19th, 2026, 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Folsom Street Community Center
1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, California
(Afterparty until the wee hours at the Cat Club!)

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Welcome to the Gender Adventurers!

We offer monthly online and in-person events geared towards gender exploration - but we prefer to think of ourselves as Gender Adventurers! An adventure is open-ended; it might or might not have a final goal or destination but you gain valuable experience as you progress. Side quests are encouraged; objectives might change and there could be plot twists along the way!

There are no medical requirements to join our club. Some members explore advanced remedies to their dysphoria, including hormones, implants, body hair removal or enhancement and many other appearance-based gender signifiers. Overall, "passing" is not our group goal; we aim more for celebration and experimentation.

Our in person group meets at 7 PM on the third Wednesday of every month at the Folsom Street Community Center in San Francisco. It is wheelchair accessible. We have changing space available and non-gendered bathrooms. For everyone's health, we provide face masks and air flow.

After 2 hours to get to know each other and get dressed up (not everyone feels safe dressing at home), we shift into "party mode" and relocate to our afterparty, one block away, at the Cat Club. This portion of our evening is 21+ at a bar during Playland, their fetish theme night. Photo ID is required, since they serve alcohol. The bouncer at this venue is very used to people not looking like their legal ID photos and is very discreet when it comes to our "secret identities." There is a cover charge and they have a paid coat check. PlayLand features gogo dancers with a small dungeon for BDSM play and allows kinky scenes as long as your genitals and nipples remain covered.

We also have an ONLINE discussion group via Zoom on the second Thursday of each month, from 7 PM until 9:30 PM (Pacific Time). The next online group will be September 10th on Zoom for BACK TO SCHOOL NIGHT.

Our club is 100% donation funded! If you support our goals, please consider a one-time donation to "FriendsofAlice" via Venmo or joining http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

French Maid Month! July 9th Zoom & July 15th San Francisco

We are celebrating liberté, égalité and fraternité with solidarity and a dash of whimsy in July. Together, we don the special uniforms of the revolutionary French Maid brigade, commemorating Bastille Day and independence struggles throughout history. Sissies and sexies encouraged!

Bastille Day is the national holiday of France, commemorating the Storming of the Bastille in 1789, a major turning point in the French Revolution that symbolized the fall of the monarchy and the birth of the Republic. There are many revolutionary events celebrated in July, but this one has the best outfits and inspired our favorite Olympic performance art.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hTMYk7orHw

There are two different ways to participate - our online group is always on the second Thursday of each month and the in person gathering happens in San Francisco on the third Wednesday of each month.

Join us on Zoom Thursday July 9th, 7:00 PM - 9:30 PM PDT (Pacific Time). We will post the join link and discussion questions on Patreon the morning of the group and send links privately to everyone on Fetlife who RSVPs. If you have burning questions that you would like to ask at group level, send them to Mistress Alice!

Everyone gets an opportunity to share on the night's topics, ask additional questions, show off their outfit and get things off their chest. You do not have to turn on your webcam to participate and are welcome to use Zoom filters. Please, no recording or AI "assistants" during our gathering. We also have a lively chat room during the group.

RSVP optional: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/07/09/online-international-gender-adventurers-july-9th-french-maid-zoom-rihpg4

We meet again in person on July 15th 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM at the Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, California. The community center is wheelchair accessible. We have changing space available and non-gendered bathrooms. For everyone's health, we also offer face masks.

After 2 hours to get to know each other and get dressed up (not everyone feels safe dressing at home), we shift into "party mode" and relocate to our afterparty, one block away, at the Cat Club 1190 Folsom St, San Francisco, California.

This portion of our evening is 21+ at a bar during the "Playland" fetish theme night. Photo ID is required and they serve alcohol. There is a cover charge and they have a paid coat check. PlayLand also features gogo dancers and a dungeon area for BDSM play. Kinky scenes are encouraged, as long as your genitals and nipples remain covered.

RSVP optional: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/07/15/san-francisco-gender-adventurers-july-15th-french-maid-night-hb84ov

There are no medical requirements to join our club. Some members explore advanced remedies to dysphoria, including hormones, implants, hair removal or enhancement and many other changes. Overall, "passing" is not our group goal; we welcome celebration and experimentation.

This can be a comfortable place to begin exploring.

We are 100% donation funded! If you support our goals, please consider a one-time donation to "FriendsofAlice" via Venmo or joining http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

If you're reading this, we give you permission to participate, by allowing yourself to dress freely in solidarity. Even if you never log in to Zoom or join us in San Francisco, you deserve to be yourself.

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers May 14th Zoom Discussion Group

RSVP: https://fetlife.com/events/1954986

Join: http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

(Zoom Details Sent to RSVPs Privately)

Thursday, May 14th, 2026 7:00 PM - 9:30 PM PDT

A gender adventure is open-ended; it might not have a final goal or destination but we gain experience along the way. Side quests are encouraged and there are often plot twists! We have members all over the world, on all 7 continents, including some at sea and in surprising places. Join us!

The Gender Adventurers host an International Online Discussion Group via Zoom on the second Thursday of each month, from 7 PM until 9:30 PM (Pacific Time). Everyone gets an opportunity to share on the night's topics, ask additional questions, show off their outfit and get things off their chest. You do not have to turn on your webcam to participate and are welcome to use Zoom filters. We also have a lively chat room during the 2.5 hour group.

WE DO NOT POST ZOOM DETAILS IN PUBLIC (for security).

Zoom links are sent privately to Fetlife RSVPs on the day of the event and posted to a members-only area on Patreon (including free members).

There are no medical requirements to join our club. Some members explore advanced remedies to their dysphoria, including hormones, implants, hair removal or enhancement and many other changes. Overall, "passing" is not our group goal; we aim more for celebration and experimentation.

This can be a comfortable place to begin exploring. Taking a small risk, successfully, can be very healing. Everyone starts somewhere in their journey. Everyone was a newbie or a "first timer" at least once in their lives.

Our club is 100% donation funded! If you support our goals, please consider a one-time donation to "FriendsofAlice" via Venmo or joining http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

Curious about our in person munch? We meet at 7 PM on the third Wednesday of every month in San Francisco at the Folsom Street Community Center, with an after party at the Cat Club. The next one will be our CLOTHING EXCHANGE - PLEASE COME GET FREE CLOTHES on May 20th, you can RSVP at: https://fetlife.com/events/1954988

If you're reading this, we give you permission to participate, by allowing yourself to dress freely in solidarity. Even if you never log in to Zoom or join us in San Francisco, you deserve to be yourself.