u/Alive_Cockroach5920

Completely new to anal play and prostate stimulation. Where should I start?

Hey guys, looking for some advice from people with experience here.

I’m a male with basically no prior sexual experience, and recently I’ve been exploring my orientation and curiosity a bit more seriously.

I’ll be solo traveling to Tokyo soon, and for the first time I’ll have some genuine alone time without family around. I kinda want to use the opportunity to privately and safely explore anal play by myself in the hotel, just to understand what I actually enjoy.

Completely new to this stuff so just wanted to ask:
\- What’s the best way for a first timer to get into it?
\- Better to just start with fingers first or go straight to beginner toys?
\- Are prostate massagers actually good for beginners or would a small dildo/butt plug make more sense?

Would appreciate any practical advice or beginner mistakes to avoid. Thanks!

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u/Alive_Cockroach5920 — 9 days ago