Black guy who never fit in as a man — looking for baddie friends
I’m Nova-Jade ✨
I’ve been on this journey for years. I’ve done makeovers, trained my body, and tried to express my feminine side, but I always end up purging everything out of shame — deleting accounts and photos, then starting over. It’s been an exhausting cycle.
I’ve never really felt like I fit in as a man. Especially as a Black man, where there’s often a very strong expectation of masculinity that never felt natural to me. Deep down, I’ve always wanted to be softer, curvier, and more feminine. I want to become a thick, curvy black baddie — with a big round ass (working toward that look naturally through training and padding), tiny waist, thick thighs, and that confident feminine energy.
Right now I’m not looking for advice or tips. I’m mainly here because I want real friends. Other baddies, sissies in progress, or anyone who understands what it feels like to not fit into the masculine role and wants to support each other. I’d love to connect with thick/curvy/black girls who are on a similar path — just to chat, share progress, hype each other up, and feel less alone.
If that sounds like you, feel free to say hi. I could really use some genuine friends in this space right now.