u/Appropriate_Fly_8103

Please be clean, recently tested, and good looking. Both mid 30s. Live pic.

Let's be real: most solo guys treat couple scenarios like a business transaction, which completely kills the mood for a woman. My girlfriend is new to this, deeply submissive, and operates on responsive desire. She wants to be courted, not managed. After a few bad experiences she seems to have given up finding a connection online.

I’d want to orchestrate an organic "meet cute" in NYC this weekend. I need a handsome, eloquent guy who can spontaneously approach her at a bar or cafe, have a genuinely engaging first-date caliber conversation, leave a number, and exit. You are the catalyst to wake up her imagination before I step back into the frame.

About us: Active, fit, love the outdoors/trekking, yoga, and mindfulness. She's currently doing French immersion, so a French speaker would absolutely steal the show.

Send a real intro and photos. Let's see if the vibe aligns.
\> Tele: Rodeoblue

My girlfriend and I (male) have been together a few years. I’ve got plenty of experience with group play on both sides, but she’s entirely new to it. We’re looking for a sharp, good-looking guy who can actually hold a conversation, with the potential for it to become a regular thing if the vibe is right.
We’ve tried meeting solo guys before, but honestly, they blew it. They jumped straight into treating it like a transaction, talking about positions and boundaries instead of just letting things flow. She’s submissive, loves to be treated like a queen in bed, but she has "responsive desire." She needs a genuine connection and a vibe before anything physical happens. Right now, she’s a bit jaded because she thinks any guy joining a couple is just looking to hook up and leave. She wants a guy who can take the lead, but do it gently and slowly, like a normal, fun first date.

Because of that, our next move is to make it feel completely organic. The fantasy she’s bought into is "meeting a stranger in the wild"—whether it’s at a sexy hotel bar, an art gallery, or a coffee shop. The guy strikes up a casual conversation about her drink, her book, or her plans, flirts a bit, and leaves his number with a European-style kiss on the cheek before walking away.

Basically, we need someone who can play the part of that charming stranger, break the ice naturally, and make her feel pursued before I step into the picture.

We’re into outdoors, hiking, backpacking, yoga, and spirituality. French speakers front to the line (she is learning!).

Open to ongoing.
Are you that guy?
Tele Rodeoblue
Snp rk123691
New York June 5-8

I’ll [37m good looking!) be visiting the area and meeting a local sexy female fwb who is eager to explore with another guy in the mix. I’m hoping to help organize a sexy night or two to focus on her.
Please respond with a picture or two if your profile doesn’t have one. Being able to meet with no sexpectations is key. Let’s grab a drink with her?